To Move Forward In Life, You Must Be Your Real Self

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“The person who is not master of himself can never be master of others.”- Napoleon Hill

“You are the architect of your own life.”– Napoleon Hill

“You can do great things in life if you are your best self.”– E. Bright

“Only I can change my life. No one can do it for me.”– Carol Burnett, actress

“What is the point of being alive if you don’t at least try to do something remarkable.”– John Green, author

If you want to achieve greatness in your life, you must be who you are. You must be your real self.Don’t worry about what people are saying about you. Focus on what is important to you, and how you are going to get the results you are looking for.

Accept yourself the way you are. Don’t let anyone put you down, or talk you down. Choose your fight wisely. Don’t fight petty fight. They are irrelevant. They will not help reach your goals. They will set you back. When people disagree with you, respectfully tell them how you feel, and move on.

Don’t let negative comments affect your life. Why? Because there are people out there whose sole purpose is to make you unhappy, to tear you down, to point out what is wrong about you, to tell you that you are not good enough, to tell you that you are doing the wrong course. It is their opinion, not yours. Their negative comments about you will affect you only if you allow them into your life, only if you allow them to stay in your life.

If you dismiss them immediately and replace them with positive comments about yourself, they will not stay. They will fade away. Remember, if you don’t play negative comments in your head, you will not remember them, you will forget them. So, if you want to deal with negative talk, replace them with positive ones.

You are who you are. Don’t try to be who you are not. If you do that, you are not living your life, you are living someone else’s life. To move forward in life, learn how to live your own life

Making Things Happen

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“No man can live a full life while he is bound in any part of his nature. He must have freedom of thought as well as freedom of action to grow to his full height.”- Orison Sweat Marden

Your goal in life is to grow to your full height. Your goal in life is to make things happen, not allowing things to happen to you. When you allow things to happen to you, you have no control over it. But when you make things happen, you have control over every decision concerning that thing. In other words, you are the master of your life. You are the owner of your life.

There is nothing in life that you cannot achieve if you make things happen rather than allowing things to happen to you. Remember, anything that controls you is your master.

Don’t let things happen to you, make things happen to you. Whatever it is you want, you can get it. You can get by working smart, by working hard, by doing one thing at a time.

If you want to enjoy your life. if you want to be productive, if you want to be happier, make things happen to you rather than allowing things to fall on your head. If you do that, you are on your way to freedom.