Failure: How To Make It Work For You

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“It doesn’t matter if you try and try again, and fail. It does matter if you try and fail, and fail to try again.”- Charles Kettering

Failure is the way. It takes courage to bounce back from failure. Failure is painful. Failure is embarrassing. No one wants to fail. Failure is inevitable. The best way to deal with failure is to expect it.

Don’t worry about it. Just learn from it. If you try and you didn’t succeed, you are not a loser. You are a winner. Because winners try, but losers don’t.

How Fear Can Stuck You

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If you want to defeat your fears, you must be stronger, tougher than your fears. Do not let your fears control your life. Your life is your life. You should be in charge of your life, not your fears. Fear is in the present. If you want to defeat your fears, focus on what you are doing right now. Do not let fear stop you from living in the moment.

You cannot defeat your fears without taking actions. Take actions to conquer your fears. Fear is here. It is not going anywhere. To defeat your fears, you must work harder than them. You must be consistent in your actions. You must outperform your fears. In the words of Joe Paterno, You have to perform at a consistently higher level than others. That is the mark of a true professional.` You have to perform at a consistently higher level than your fears.

Do not let your fears stuck you. They can stuck you, if you allow it. Do not allow it! You must have confidence in yourself. You must believe in yourself. When you believe in yourself, other people will believe in you. If you have confidence in yourself, other people will have confidence in you. Confidence attracts confident people. Fear has stopped so many people from doing great things in their lives. But do not let fear stop you. Do whatever you want to do in your life. Do not worry about fear. When you are ready to execute, fear will disappear.

Fear will disappear when love shows up. Love and fear cannot live together. Where there is love, fear will disappear.

Where there is fear, there is no love. Where there is fear, there is no happiness. Where there is fear, there is no growth. Where there is fear, there is no peace. Where there is fear, there is no vision. Where there is fear, there is no creativity. And where there is fear, there is no life.

Where there is love, there is life.

If you want to conquer your fears, invite love into your life.