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You Are Not Going To Be Successful If You Do Not Understand Your Soul

by Bright Osadiaye, posted in Personal Development, Personal Growth
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Plato once said, “Are you not ashamed that you give your attention to acquiring as much money as possible, and similarly with reputation and honor, and give no attention or thought to truth and understanding and the perfection of your soul.” We do not do that. We want other people to do it for us.

When we fail, we blame others. We do not take responsibility for our own lives. Look, whether you know it or not, whether you want to accept it or not, if you want things to get better for you, you have got to stop blaming other people for your own problem, for your own mistake, for your own failure. They are not responsible for your failure. You are responsible for where you are in your life.

“If you want to be successful in your life, you must take 100% responsibility for your life.”

So if you want things to change, you have got to change your mindset; you have got to start doing something new; you have got to start taking responsibility for your life. You are where you are because you never take responsibility for your life. You are where you are because you never work on yourself. You are where you are because you didn’t do what you were supposed to do to change your life. Instead, you were busy pleasing the people around you. You were busy living other people’s lives. You never take ownership of your own life.

“If your soul is not happy with you, you are not going to be happy with yourself.”

Look, if you cannot own your life, then why is it your life? Do not fear yourself. Do not fear your future. If you prepare for tomorrow, you will enjoy tomorrow. But if you ignore tomorrow, tomorrow will ignore you. You can change your life. You can change the direction of your life. To do that, you must understand your soul. It is important.

Remember, If your soul is not happy with you, you are not going to be happy with yourself. You are not going to be able to make peace with yourself if you are not willing to listen to your soul. When your soul is okay, you are okay. Just listen to your soul. Because you are not going to be successful if your soul is not happy with your goal. Focus on your soul. Understand it. And you will find success in your life.

What To Do When You Are Not Feeling Great About Your Life

by Bright Osadiaye, posted in Personal Development, Personal Growth
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When things are not going well for you, what does it mean to you? What is the message? What are you doing that you are not supposed to be doing? What are you not doing that you are supposed to be doing? Why are things the way they are? What are you going to do about them? If you do not do something about them, they will do something about you. They will change your life forever.

So when things are not going well for you, the message is that you need to change what is not working for you. You need to start doing the right things. You need to stop wasting your time on useless things. When things are not going well for you, you need to change what you are doing. Do not change what is working for you, only what is not working. Because doing what is not working is a waste of your precious time. Remember, if you want to make yourself really happy, you must focus your heart on what is working for you. Do not limit yourself. Do not focus on what is not working. Do not put any limits on your own life. And do not let bad feelings ruin your life.

Whenever you are not happy with your life, you have got to change your focus from what you do not have to what you have. Be grateful for what you have, not what you do not have. You have a lot of things in your life to be grateful for. Whenever you feel sad about something in your life, just think about what is working for you. Because when you are grateful for what you have, you will have more things to be grateful for. With gratitude, you can attain anything in your life.

Whether good or bad, whether you are doing well or not, whether you are living in a big mansion or not, whether you have a college degree or not, you can do whatever you set your mind to. Remember, nothing can take the place of gratitude. It is the way.