Questions That Matter

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Great questions matter. Successful people ask great questions. Unsuccessful people don't. 
Successful people ask questions to get more questions. On the other hand, unsuccessful people ask questions to get more answers. 
Questions are not about answers. They are about more questions. 
If your questions are producing more answers, then they are wrong. They are not strong enough. They are not philosophical enough. 
But if your questions are giving you more questions, then keep asking them. They are the right ones.
If you want to grow, ask great questions. Because great questions lead to great answers. 
If you want to grow, you must ask questions that matter.
Let us start with you. Ask yourself,
"What do I really want? where do I want to go? How do I get there?
Do I know what I really want for myself? 
Am I planning my life? What am I doing to make my dreams come true? 
Am I doing what is required of me? Am I doing my best? Am I giving my best?
Am I treating myself with love and respect? 
Am I treating other people with love and respect?
Am I living my life? Am I doing what makes me happy? Am I doing what I love?
If what I am doing is not working, why is it not working? What is holding me back?
What am I doing to get what I want? Do I have what it takes? Am I brave enough? 
Who are the people around you? Ask yourself, "What are my friends doing? Are they moving forward?
Are they growing? Are they treating me with love and respect? 
Are they getting things done? If not, why?
Are they taking risks? What are they doing to change their lives?
If  your friends are not growing, then why are you doing with them?
If you want to grow, you must hang around doers, not talkers.

Your Dreams Are Not Impossible

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Do not get discouraged. Dreams are hard to achieve, but not impossible. Just because something is hard, does not mean it can't done. 
With the right attitude, it can be done. 
With the right mindset, it can be done. 
With love, it can be done. 

Your dreams are your dreams. No matter how tough, do not give up. If you really want to give it up, if you really want to forget about it, if you want to go for something else, ask yourself this question: "Am I making the right decision." Because you do not want to do something that you will regret for the rest of your life. 

Your dreams matter. Do not let anyone tell you that your dreams are not possible, not even your so-called best friend. Do not forget why you need your dream. Do not forget why you want it, how it makes you feel. If you want it badly, then do whatever it takes to make it happen. 
But be patient with yourself. Dreams don't happen overnight. It takes time for dreams to happen, for great things to happen. Wait. 

Never allow anyone to stand between you and your dreams. If you are with someone who does not believe in your dreams, then you have got to keep your dreams to yourself. Because you do not want your dreams to die. If you want your dreams to come true, you have got to surround yourself with positive people, people who are for your dreams, who are for you. 

Never forget your dreams. 
Live in your dreams. 
Love your dreams. 
Practice your dreams. 
And believe in your dreams. 

Do not chase other people's dreams. Even if other people do not believe in your dreams, do not give them up. They are your dreams, not their dreams.