Accept Responsibility For Your Growth

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If you are not growing, if you are not increasing in your life,
it means you are avoiding something.
If you are not growing in your life, in your career,
it means you are not doing something right.
If you are always meeting the wrong people,
it means you are always thinking the wrong thoughts.

You can change your situation. You can change your life.
But to do that, you must change something. You must change your thoughts.
You must change how you see yourself. 
Why is that? Because you can't grow more than your self-perception.
You can't do more than your thoughts. You can't create more than your thoughts.
Do not forget that your thoughts are responsible for your actions.

If you want to take your life to a new level, you must learn how to 
accept responsibility for your growth. 
Do not forget that you cannot get what you do not control. 
Take control of your life. That is why it is your life.
If you do not have the courage to control it, do not worry,
someone else is coming to help you. I hope that is not where you want to be.

Do not wait for people to lift you up. It is your responsibility to lift yourself up,
then people will join you. People will follow you. People will do what you want them to do.
If you are in a leadership position, people don't care how much you know. 
All they want to see is action. If you can show them what you are capable of, they will
show you what they can do for you.

If you want other people to believe in you, you must first show them what you can do.
To do that, you must be the driver of your life.
Because you cannot control what doesn't belong to you. Take charge of your life,
so that you can control it.

Why You Should Treat Yourself With Love

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Are you treating yourself with love? Are you treating yourself with respect? If you don’t have the courage to treat yourself with love, then why are expecting it from other people? Why are you waiting for others to treat you with love? If you wait, you are waiting for nothing.

“Do not let anyone tell you how to live your life.”

Why is that? Because no one is going to love you more than you love yourself. No one is going to do for you what you can do for yourself. Do not wait. It is your life. If you want to live it, if you want to enjoy it, you must design it yourself. Do not let anyone tell you how to design your life. Do not let anyone tell you where you should go, or where you shouldn’t go.

There is nothing you cannot do if you are committed to doing it. There is no life you cannot live if you are committed to living it. But it all starts with you. Because if you have the courage to change yourself, everything in your life will change. But if you do not have the courage to change yourself, your life is not going to change.

You are strong. You are smart. There is nothing you cannot do. You are capable of doing great things. You can change your life when you let go of the need to impress everyone around you. Do not even try to make everyone around you happy. It won’t work. But you can make yourself happy.

You cannot make everyone around you happy, but you can make yourself happy. Yes, you can make yourself happy. It starts with self-love. It starts with treating yourself with love. Will you do it?