Tag: Anger

4 Powerful Quotes On How To Become Your True Self

by Bright Osadiaye, posted in Personal Development, Personal Growth
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Who are you? Do you know who you really are? Do you know why you are here? If you do not know, it is never too late to become your true self.

‘The energy you wake up in, the emotions you feel and the mental thoughts you meet the day with have greater power and potential to dictate how your day will go. You either attack your day with vengeance and anger or you greet your day with openness and gratitude.’– Gerry Hussey

‘Thoughts are energy, and what we know is that wherever energy flows, these things grow. Choose and observe your thoughts wisely because they have an impact on every single aspect of our lives.’- Gerry Hussey

‘The relationship we have with our inner self, our inner thoughts and inner emotions is where the awakening happens and where real wellness starts and ends.’- Gerry Hussey

‘If we don’t really know who we are, how do we know which community is the best for us to belong to? – Gerry Hussey

2 Anger Management Lessons From Dalai Lama

by Bright Osadiaye, posted in Personal Development, Personal Growth
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When you are angry, the Dalai Lama says, “Keep a calm mind, study the situation, then take a countermeasure. If you let a wrongdoing happen, it might continue and increase, so, out of compassion, take appropriate countermeasures.”

You can’t live without anger. But how you act matters. What you do matters. When you are angry, try to control yourself. You can’t control the other person. But you can control yourself, your actions.

Do not let your anger take over your life. When you are angry, ask yourself, Is this the right way to conduct myself?

If it is not the right way, then stay away. Forgive yourself. Forgive the other person. It is difficult, but doable.

Do not go to bed with someone else’s problem.

Do not let anger ruin your life, your day, your future. No matter what, always try to stay calm when others are going crazy. The Dalai Lama says, “Tolerance means that you should not develop anger or hatred. But if another person does something harmful to us,’ and we do nothing, the person may take even more adavantage of us, and even more negative action may come.”

Treat yourself as you want to be treated. Remember, whatever you tolerate, people will do more of it to you. If you want others to treat you with love, you must first treat yourself with love. If not, it won’t happen.

Further Reading:

Goleman, D., A Force for Good: The Dalai Lama’s Vision for Our World (New York: Bantam Books, 2015): 86-87.