Tag: Accomplishment

How To Build Your Life Around Self-Confidence

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You can’t build your life around fear. Fear is real, but do not let it stop you from doing what you want to do. Nothing is perfect. Do not wait to be perfect before you start something. You are not doing what you are supposed to be doing because you don’t want to fail. If you want to make it in life, you can’t avoid failure. If you are not failing, you are not trying hard enough. If you are not crying in your bedroom, you are not making enough mistakes. Dan Rockwell writes, “Imperfect progress today is better than perfect progress tomorrow.” Yes, it is better to make a mistake than to get stuck in a rut. To pursue your goals, don’t fear mistakes, fear not making enough. Build your success around making mistakes, not around fear. In fact, don’t wait for things to happen to you. Instead, get out of your comfort zone to make things happen for you. Yes, it can happen. You have done it before. Don’t doubt yourself. Believe in yourself. Build your life around self-love, self-confidence, not self-doubt. With self-confidence, you can really accomplish a lot of things in your life. Remember that you are in charge of your life. You can do whatever you say you can do. You can’t do whatever you say you cannot do. You can accomplish a lot in your life if you can just focus on the process, not on the results. Because learning is about the process, not about the results.

Do Not Try To Do Everything

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Life is not about trying to do everything perfectly. It is about doing something really well. No one expects you to be good at everything. But the world expects you to be really good at something. Permit me to ask you, my friend. What is it that you are really good at? What is that one thing that keeps you up at night? What is that one thing that you never stop talking about? What is it? That thing is your purpose in your life. No matter what it is, you have the power to do it, so just do it. Don’t fear anything. Fear will always be there. Just learn how to play with your fears. Don’t let them stop you. Take action. Play with your fears. Always prepare before you start. Don’t just jump into what you don’t know. Always ask questions. Ask people who have done it before. Don’t let your pride stay in your way. And do not try to be perfect. Because it doesn’t exist. No matter what you are trying to accomplish, always do your best. Work really hard to create your own future. Because the future you are chasing is right in front of you. Do not miss it. Remember that everything is possible. Believe in yourself. You are responsible for your success and failure. You are. Yes, you are.