Tag: Accomplishment

How To Reset Your Life

by Bright Osadiaye, posted in Personal Development

If you don’t like what is going on in your life, it is your responsibility to look within you. Do not blame it on others. Do not blame it on your family people. Yes, where we are can affect how we do things in life.

But we are responsible for what we do, what we think, and how we feel.

If you do not like your life, reset it.

If you do not like your work, reset it.

If you do not like where your life is going, reset it.

Because life is about starting again. To start again is to hit the reset button. To hit the reset button is to wake up.

Reset means doing something again. Trying something again.

Stuck means staying where you are. Not trying anything at all. Not growing at all. Just doing the same thing every day.

To hit your own reset button, don’t live in your past. Because ‘the past cannot tell you who you are, but it can give you clues about which future will provide you with the most freedom to be entirely yourself.’

When you hit your own reset button, you can learn from your past, but do not stay there.

Share your passion with people who can help you. Do not share your dreams with dream killers. And be willing to learn from your supporters.

Because ‘when you share passion, play together, and are vulnerable in your conversations, you you get to know each other in a way that isn’t otherwise possible. You build bonds of trust, and you want to do more together because it makes you feel more alive. … together, you can take more risks that wouldn’t be possible alone, because you each bring your best to the process.’

Do not waste your time. Remember, you are starting again. You are restarting your life, your success engine. Be with people who are pursuing what you are going after.

‘When you make genuine connections with like-minded people, those connections often develop into honest, authentic relationships, and magic can happen.’

The question is, ‘Are you making the right connections with the right people?’ If you are, keep on keeping on!

Source:

Gezim Gashi (2021). Unlocked: the power of YOU

To Know More, You Must Question More

by Bright Osadiaye, posted in Motivational Quotes, Personal Development

If you want to know more about yourself, you must question more. According to Sara Elise, ‘Questioning is the first step in your manifestation work…. It’s a process and a practice that allows you to firmly say, ‘I’m doing the dreaming and deciding for yourself.’

Do not follow the crowd. If you want to stand out, you must question everything. ‘Questioning everything is another step to creating a life for yourself beyond the realms of these structures, beyond the realms of what other people have dreamed and decided for you.’

Whatever you want in your life, you can seek it out yourself. Do not put your life at risk. Decide for yourself. Ask real questions. The more questions you ask, the better for you.

Because ‘questioning everything is about shaking things up, shaking loose our mental bondage.’ You have got to do that. Do not believe the lies that you have been telling yourself. You must shake them off. You must focus on what is going on in your life right now, what you are trying to accomplish right now.

‘Questioning is about getting a snapshot of the current situation so that you can properly assess it.’

You are not going to know what is going on around you if you do not have the courage to question yourself, to hear yourself, and to have the courage to ask real questions.

‘Questioning ourselves provides the foundation for understanding ourselves, assessing our needs, and then being able to communicate them to others.’

But know this: ‘Questioning everything is not permission for being inconsiderate, hurt, or self-absorbed or for going only where you feel a rush of excitement and adrenaline, because then you are creating space only for addiction, numbing, and immediate satisfaction.’

Remember, if you want to know more about things, ask more questions.

Source: Sara Elise (2023). A Recipe for More: Ingredients for a Life of Abundance and Ease