Where You Do Your Work Matters

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Before you accept a position, ask yourself, ‘Is this the right place for me? Can I grow here? Can I be myself? Are they supportive? Is it where I can do my best work?’

If you are not happy with your answers, then you must rethink your decision. Why is that? Because your life is more than your work. You are more than your work. Above all, you need a place where doing your best work is not a crime, where you are not going to be punished for doing your best work.

If you do not have a place where you can shine, you are betraying yourself. You are acting below your potential. You are settling for less. You are bringing yourself down. That is not good. That is not why you are alive.

It is not good because God didn’t create you for an average job. God created you to do great things. That is why it is a problem to get stuck in a place where you cannot grow, where you are not supported.

No matter what you are earning from your current job, you can always earn more. You can always do more. So do accept whatever you are getting now as final. Because it is not. It is just the beginning of your greatness.

Remember, greatness happens when you have the courage to be you, to step out of your safe zone, to challenge the status quo. Greatness happens when you are not afraid to be you, when you are not afraid to ask tough questions, when you are not afraid to go after what you want.

Moving forward, if you want to grow in your career, you need to look at where you are right now. Then ask yourself, ‘What do I really want for myself? What do I see myself doing in the future? Am I going to be happy doing what I am doing now in the future?’ If you are not happy with your answers, then you have to get to work. Something must change.

Something must change. Get to work to change it. Do not be afraid to step into the unknown. If your job is not making you happy, don’t stay there, look for another job. If your boss, your manager, is a joke, look for another place to work. If your colleagues are not supportive, then you must leave. If not, you are hurting yourself.

No matter what you are earning now, your life is more than money. No amount of money can make you complete if you have a broken soul, if you are just hanging in there. That is why you should never settle for anything below your potential.

Because real growth comes from doing what is above your potential, when you are stretching yourself, when you are working with people who are there to help you grow, not to take you to the ground.

If you want to move ahead in your career, you have a choice. If you are not growing, you must change something.

Signs You Are In A Toxic Workplace

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‘No one wants to tell the boss bad news, let alone tell him he’s acting like a jerk.’

‘We all got used to thinking we were inept losers who didn’t really deserve to be paid.’

‘We have too much to do allow the toxic naysayers to control the situation.’

‘A smile or single word of appreciation would have made all the difference.’

‘It’s so unhealthy to bottle up my emotions, but I’m forced to keep my mouth shut.’

‘The man was a controller, a short guy in an expensive suit determined to loom over you.’

‘I could lose my job tomorrow! Without it, I can’t make ends meet. To say the least, I feel stressed out a lot of the time.’

‘I felt totally unappreciated for all the years I had given the company. So I quit with no place to go.’

‘With Frank as CEO, things deteriorated drastically.‘

‘As I looked at the operators sitting in front of me I knew they were thinking, ‘You talk like you’re one of us, but we both know you’re not.’

Source

Gary Chapman, Paul White, and Harold Myra (2014). Rising Above a Toxic Workplace: Taking Care of Yourself in an Unhealthy Environment