"Trying to change your life without being self-aware is like using a map to try to get somewhere you've never been before: if you don't know where you're starting from, you ain't gonna get very far."- Jen Sincero
Why is that? Because change starts with you. You are the one who is changing, not me. So if you want it to be successful, you must first know why you are changing. You have got to ask yourself,
"Why am I doing it now?" "Is it the right time for me?"
Know who you are before trying to change your life. If you do not know who you are, or you do not have the courage to ask yourself some tough questions, then your change is not going to be successful.
Why? Because you are not in the game. You are just a spectator.
To change your life, you must be a participant, not a spectator.
A participant is working, doing, innovating, creating, changing.
While
A spectator is just watching people getting things done.
If you want to change your life, to move to the next level, you do not need spectators around you.
You need more participants. If not, you are not going to get to where you want to be.
At the end of the day, you are responsible for your thoughts.
No one is responsible for your thoughts. And if you don't like
what you are getting, then check your thoughts.
You have to do it for yourself.
If you are not happy, it is your choice.
Because if you can change yout thoughts,
you can change your life.
You can make yourself happy. You can stay positive every day.
You can stay positive every day. What about other people?
People are not positive
because they are ALWAYS feeding themselves with negative things.
You can't stay positive when your mind is in a dark place.
People are not happy, are not positive, because they
are always looking for what is not there to make them happy.
Look, if you chase happiness, you are chasing your own shadow.
You can't catch it. It is always ahead of you.
If you try to, you will run forever.
There is no secret to staying positive every day.
All it takes is a decision.
The decision to be happy, to stay positive, no matter what.
Pay attention to your life, to your thoughts, to your actions.
Do the right things. They will never fail you.
Do not ignore your intuition. It is there to help you.
Stay away from blaming other people for your own life.
Look, it doesn't matter what you have done with your life.
No one is perfect. Instead of reliving the past, why not
take this moment to enjoy yourself,
to love yourself even more, and
to appreciate yourself, your life?
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