‘Leading With Wisdom’

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To lead other people with wisdom is to love them for who they are. It is to lift them up, not bring them down.

Wisdom says, ‘I see you. You matter. Your work matters. You are not a machine. You are a human being.’

In the writings of Mark Strom, ‘The wisdom traditions reflect life as it was experienced, not as moralist might claim it should be. Wisdom is therefore always contextual.’

‘Wisdom view life as a whole- a vast complex tapestry. It urges us to watch, to listen, to read, to discern, and to store up insights we can draw from later.’

‘Our lives are shaped by words.’

‘If character is who we are when no one can see us, then integrity is being the same person no matter who we are with or where we are.’

‘Leadership is not about getting the same group of people to do the same thing in the ways in a stable context.’

‘To lead with wisdom is to enable partnership.’

‘Truth yields clarity. Beauty yields elegance. Goodness yields strength of character and unity-in-diversity yields heart.’

‘Every challenge urges us to learn and to change.’

‘Leading well makes us vulnerable.’

‘Our deepest learning is sometimes hammered out on our worst leading.’

Source:

Mark Strom (2014). Leading with Wisdom: How Wisdom Transforms Good leaders Into Great Leaders

Turning Rejections Around

‘…You are also allowed to be the rejecter and say no when something is posed as a great opportunity but just doesn’t feel right.’- Sam Jay

‘If you care enough about your work, you will be able to get past rejections.’– Alysia Reiner

‘When one door closes, another one opens.’- Alysia Reiner

‘It’s powerful to share experiences of rejection. … By sharing your vulnerability and your hardships, you give other people permission to do so as well. Then collectively, we’re able to kind of grow stronger together.’- Polly Rodriquez

‘After a rejection, you have to stop your own destructive narration, the looping story in which you tell yourself what just happened.’– Rachel Platten

‘Volunteering is one of the best possible ways to overcome a failure. because all of a sudden you’re not focused on what you don’t have. You’are focused on all that you can give.’- Rachel Platten

‘Treat your inner artist like a kindergartener in art class. Be gentle rather than critical.’- Rachel Platten

‘When you are trying to make a change, acknowledge that whatever the pushback, there is often validity in other people’s concerns.’- Marilyn Carlson Nelson

‘You know what would be bizzare? If you never failed and you never got rejected.’– Sarah Koenig

‘When you get rejected, you feel like you’re the only one to whom this has happened- but that’s not true. Failure happens to everyone.’- Angela Duckworth

‘Authenticity is all about staying true to your values, not to one particular communication style.’

Jessica Bacal (2021). The Rejection That Changed My Life: 25+ Women on Being Let Down, Turning It Around, and Burning It Up At Work