RecruitTheBest Daily Digest- Learning To Lead From The Inside Out

Truly being able to listen to others and actually hear what they’re saying, and being able to reconcile different suggestions and ideas and then combine them in a ‘best of the best’ thinking approach, is a key skill for leaders.’

The best leaders develop a sense of true belonging by convincing themselves that they are indeed the right person for the job even if they’re harboring some insecurities. They find the courage to overcome their lack of confidence by figuring out what’s keeping them back and confronting it.’

‘Being able to go beyond your own sense of self to achieve what is best for the team, the organization, and the world around you is critical to being successful- this is the ultimate definition of selfless leadership.’

Being vulnerable means you are in touch with what triggers your emotions and know how to direct those feelings into positive energy. You are willling to be touched, moved, and influenced by others and at the same time to share your hopes, fears, and concerns in a way that invites support from others. … Being vulnerable also means knowing how to deal with failure.’

‘Picking a few areas that are most important for you and your organization and going deep is a practice that leaders have to learn. A realization that you are not the smartest person on all topics is foundational for continual learning.’

The best leaders are not only good listeners but flexible enough to see when following the cause starts exacting too high a price on their employees.’

The best leaders encourage their people to understand their why and then give them the space to decide how it applies to their work.’

The best leaders create a system that allows the organization to evaluate bold moves from all angles, then test them out to recognize which of them show the most promise.’

The best leaders find the right balance between control and letting people have the agency to take the initiative and inevitably make some moves.’

The best leaders build and leverage informal networks of truth tellers who keep them grounded in reality and help them understand how their people really feel. They lead to inspire, not to direct, they foster a culture of dissent by actively seeking it, and welcome open discussion when it comes.’

Business leaders too often stick to the patterns and plans that made them successful and fail to change when circumstances shift.’

Source:

Dana Maor; Hans-Werner Kaas; Kurt Strovink; Ramesh Srinivasan (2024). The Journey of Leadership: How CEOs Learn to Lead from the Inside Out

How To Become A Better Person

You are who you are. No one is going to be like you . And no one can do your work the way you do it.

If you want to improve yourself, you must embrace everything about your life.

Becoming a better you is not going to happen overnight. You have to wait. You have to be patient with yourself.

And you must be willing to take risks. Calculated ones, not reckless ones.

With opportunities come risks, but don’t be afraid to take them.’

When you mess up, don’t blame other people. Hold yourself accountable for your mess. Because ‘lack of accountability in our personal life will certainly lead to problems in our public life.’

Don’t try to be who you are not. Don’t try to do what you are not trained to do. ‘Being who you really are is the first step in becoming better than you are.’

To grow, you have to be intentional.’

If you want to grow yourself, you must have your own plan. Because ‘…if you don’t have a plan for personal growth, then don’t expect to grow!’

Growth happens when you are around the greatest, when you are around people who are better than you are. ‘Being around people who are better than we are has a tendency to make us stretch and improve ourselves.’

Do the right thing.’If you keep doing the right thing, you will continue to gain greater responsibility. And the more responsibility you have, the more tough calls you will have to make.’

Experience teaches nothing, but evaluated experience teaches everything.’

The difference between average people and achieving people is their perception of and response to failure.’

Anytime you ignore reality for the sake of the relationship, you will have problems.’

The acquisition of experience can be costly. But it’s not as costly as not gaining experience.’

Source:

John C. Maxwell (2008). Leadership Gold: Lessosn I’ve Learned from a Lifetime of Leading