RecruitTheBest Daily Digest- Great Leaders Don’t Fool Their People

Don’t try t0 fool your people. They can smell phoniness a mile away, but they also recognize sincerity and authenticity, and they respect it. That starts with the job interview. If they don’t like your honest answers, you might as well find out sooner than later.’

If you’re a leader, a lot of headaches will come your way, and it’s your job to handle them. But leading your people will give your life more meaning, more depth, and a stronger sense of purpose- exactly the things your people long for too. Always remember: leading is not a chore but a privilege.’

Don’t expect to coax your people from the shallow end to the deep end. They won’t go. Better to have everyone jump into the deep end right from the start.’

No person in your organization is more important than the team and its principles- including you. There are no ‘irreplaceable people’ but your principles must hold.’

You don’t have to be the smartest guy in the room. But you do need to figure out who is, hire them, and let them do their job.’

‘Remember, once you become the leader, you’re the bad cop. If your people like your assignments more than you, congratulations. You hired well.’

‘Don’t play favorites. Water all your plants equally, and watch who grows.’

Don’t try to predict who’s going to succeed and who isn’t. Get out of the prediction business. Get into the production and promotion business.’

You have to work harder than your people do– and they need to see that.’

Never expect your people to work harder than or to take care more than you do. So be sure to do everything you ask of them at least as well as you want them to do it.’

When your people bring you their problems, questions, or ideas, thank them.’

Source:

John U. Bacon (2021). Let Them Lead: Unexpected Lessons in Leadership from America’s Worst High School Hockey Team

Becoming A Reality-Based Leader

Great leaders lead their people. They don’t run away when things are not going well.

They don’t blame their people. They do the opposite. They learn from problems.

Above all, a great leader faces his or her reality.

If you as a leader do not embrace reality and deal with it directly, those you lead will not know how to invest the precious resources of their time and energy.’

Leadership is about winning hearts and minds and consistently calling employees up to greatness by insisting on- and investing in- their growth and development.’

Leadership is working on the overall willingness, morale, and capacities of employees rather than micromanaging and becoming overinvolved in their daily activities.’

Reality-based laeders help people to change their mindsets, knowing that beliefs- not circumstances- are the greatest predictor of results.’

Reality-based leaders know that high expectations are a gift, and that it is not generous or loving to give someone that which they are capable of providing for themselves.’

‘Reality-based leaders make their expectations of the team very clear.’

Reality-based leaders assess a team’s results honestly.’

Lead the team through a thorough accounting of their individual contributions to the results.’

Reality-based leaders do not damage their credibility by perpetuating the ridiculous notion that employees should never bring forward a problem without also having a solution at hand.’

Reality-based leaders never entertain complaints about coworkers.’

When you’re in judgment, you are dealing with your story- not with reality.’

Source:

CY Wakeman (2010). Reality-Based Leadership: Ditch the Drama, Restore Sanity to the Workplace, & Turn Excuses Into Results