Tag: Simplification

Why You Should Love Yourself

by Bright Osadiaye, posted in Personal Development, Personal Growth
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Self-love is not about being perfect. It is not about being the best. It is not about other people. It is about you. Self-love is about your life.

Self-love is your inner power. If you want peace, it not going to come from what you have. It is going to come from the love you have for yourself.

If you don’t love yourself, if you are not comfortable with yourself, especially when you are alone, when things are not going well, when you are going through difficult times, what you have won’t be enough to keep you going.

Life is tough enough. If you do not love who you are, it is going to be more harder for you to do things. Do not do that to yourself. Because you deserve love.

Because love is everything. But do not expect it from other people. According to The Diary of a CEO, ‘Some people will love you. Some will hate you. Some people simply won’t care. You will only connect to the first two. But not to the third. Indifference is the least profitable outcome.’

Self-love is better. It is from you, not from others. If you want others to love you, you MUST first love yourself.

The question is, ‘Do you have the courage to love yourself, no matter what is going on in your life?

The Meaning Of Being Lonely

by Bright Osadiaye, posted in Personal Development, Personal Growth

Loneliness is not you. You are not lonely. You are reconnecting with your yourself. You are becoming a better you.

You are reflecting on things that you could have done differently. You are redefining yourself.

You are not willing to go back to where you were yesterday. You are moving foward. You are cleaning up your dirty mind. You are simplifying your life.

You are healing your life. You are healing your wound. You are forgiving people who have done things to you.

Just because you are not with people, just because you are alone, it has nothing to do with how you are feeling right now. BUT

it has everything to do with what you want for YOU. It has everything to do with where you want to go. It has everything to do with your inner self, your best self. It has everything to do with your relationships with others.

When you are alone, you are not lonely. You are spending quality time with yourself. Being alone is not being lonely. It is being alive. It is being comfortable with yourself.

Be comfortable with yourself, no matter what is going on in your life. Because if you are not okay with yourself, you will find it hard to be okay with other people.