Tag: Reality

Why You Can’t See Yourself As You Really Are

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“I am not good enough. The other person is better.” This is what you keep telling yourself. How do you know the other person is better than you?

The other person is not better than you. He or she is living his or her life. You live yours. You focus on yourself. Instead of wasting your energy playing comparison game, why not reconnect with yourself. Your soul needs the real you.

You are not going to see how beautiful you are if you keep comparing yourself to another person. It is okay to compare, but don’t forget about your own uniqueness. If you are looking away, how can you see yourself? If you don’t celebrate yourself, do you expect other people to celebrate you? Whatever you want from other people, give it to yourself. If you want love, give it to yourself. You have it. Don’t waste it!

To see yourself as you really are, according to Buddha, “Cast off pretense and self-deception and see yourself as you really are.” Self-deception closes the door to your inner life. It blocks you from knowing who you really are. It stops you from exploring yourself. It stops you from making the right decisions.

It is important to know yourself. Because if you don’t know yourself, you can’t change your life. And to change your life, self-deception is not the way to do it. You must be self-aware. Period.

Go After Your Wish

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Don’t just wish for success, you must go after your success.

Life is meaningful when we do meaningful things, when we pursue our dreams, when we don’t give in to doubts, when we live our dreams every day.

Life is a struggle when we are not busy doing the right things. If you want your life to be meaningful, you must go after your dreams. Don’t let your dreams die. Don’t let negative people talk you out of your dreams. You have what it takes to succeed. You have what it takes to pursue your dreams.

“You must go after your wish. As soon as you start to pursue a dream, your life wakes up and everything

has meaning.”-

Barbara Sher


Don’t let where you are now stop you from reaching your potential. And you cannot reach your potential if you keep doubting yourself, if you keep putting important things off, if you keep hanging out with lazy people, if you keep deceiving yourself, if you are not ready to face your OWN reality.

No mater how difficult things are for you right now, do not let that stop you from doing your best. Do not let that stop you from living a meaningful life. You can do it, and you will do it.