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Don’t Let Life Discourage You

by Bright Osadiaye, posted in Personal Development, Personal Growth
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Richard L. Evans said, “Don’t let life discourage you; everyone who got where he is had to begin where he was.”

You are probably saying to yourself, “I don’t know what to do now. I have tried everything, but nothing is working? Why me? Why are things not working for me? Other people are doing really well, but I am not? Why me?

It is okay to feel the way you are feeling right now. It is normal to feel like that. But don’t let life tell you what you cannot do. Don’t let life discourage you. All you need to do is to focus on your dreams.

The world is always going to tell you what you are not good at. But let me ask you a question. Do you know what you are good at? Do you know what you are not good at? If you know, life cannot tell you anything. It is what you tell yourself that really matters. Now, my friend, what are you telling yourself on a daily basis? Are you celebrating your life? Or are you criticizing your life? If you are criticizing your life, you need to change it. But if you are celebrating your life, according to Oprah Winfrey, “You will have more to celebrate.”

“Your life is yours to live, not to endure.”

Do not challenge life. Just accept it. You cannot change life. But you can change yourself by focusing on what really counts. If spending time with your friends counts, do more of it. If taking your partner to a fine restaurant counts, do more of it. If reading a good book counts, read more books. Just do what counts.

Your life is yours to live, not to endure. You deserve to live your life the way you want it. Again, do not let life discourage you. Keep living, and keep moving forward, no matter what.

How Your Words Can Change Your Life Forever

by Bright Osadiaye, posted in Health & Well-Being, Personal Development, Personal Growth
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If you don’t know what you are telling yourself, you don’t really know who you are, what you want, where you are, and where you are going.

Words are powerful. If you don’t have positive things to say about yourself, don’t say anything. If you want to to build a great future for yourself, start listening to your words. Because what you are telling yourself is creating your future. So if you don’t want a negative future, start telling yourself positive things today.

You are responsible for your words. Don’t be afraid to tell yourself positive things. Stop telling yourself negative things. Negative words can never produce positive results. Only positive words can give birth to positive things.

When it comes to your words, know this: “You are guilty of all the good things you didn’t tell yourself.”

You can use your words to take charge of your life by using positive words to describe yourself, your work, and your life.

Negative words can stop you from achieving your goals in your life. If you don’t stop using negative words to describe yourself, your life, and your work, you are going to stay where you are. You can change it by using positive words to celebrate your life.

Don’t worry about your past errors. It is okay to make mistakes. It is okay to fail. But do not let them define you. Do not let them define your future. You cannot change the past, but you can change now. All you need to do is to change how you describe yourself. You cannot change your life if you don’t change how you describe yourself, your life, and your work.

With positive words, you can create a new soul.

If you want to move forward in your life, you must stop using negative words to describe your life, your work, and your relationships with other people.

When you use negative words to describe yourself, your work, your relationships (with yourself and other people), your life, you are limiting your future. Remember that change starts with you. So if you want to change your life, change how you describe yourself. When you do that, you will not only feel better about your life, you will become the person you were created to be. The question is: “Are you ready to change how you describe your life? If you are ready, let us do it!