How To Bring Out The Best In Other People

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People are people. They are not things. And They deserve to be treated as human beings. 
Do not deal with them as though you are dealing with things. In his book Primary Greatness: The 12 Levers of Success, Stephen Covey writes, 'We can't deal with people as though we're dealing with things. We can be efficient with things, but we need to be effective with people. ... If you go fast with people, you'll make very slow progress. You won't hear what they are really telling you. You won't understand what a win his for them. If you go slowly and get deeply into win-win thinking, you'll find that, in the long run, it's faster to get commitment to the right resolution for both of you.''

So to get the best out of people, treat them differently. Why? Because we are different. We think differently. We work differently. We see things differently. And we see and process things differently.

Be patient with people. If you really want to know them, do not push them too fast. 
If you do, they are going to push back. And things can get really messy. And you do not want that to happen. 

Respect them. Great leaders respect others. They don't demand respect; they work to get it. So if you want others to respect you, you must first send it out. And it takes humility to respect others, to put others first. 
And if you can do it, the world is yours.

How You Can Bring Out The Best In You

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Focus on the right things.
"Everything we do is a step towards our best 
self or away from it, toward some other 
possible version of ourselves."- Gezim Gashi

If you want growth, then take the right steps.
But take them one at a time.
Do  not rush yourself, because you can't rush the process.
Great things take time to grow. 
whatever you are doing, make sure they 
are taking you closer to your dreams,
not away from them.

Do not waste your time. 
You can get other things back, but not time.

Focus on now, not past
"The past cannot tell you who you are,
but it can give you clues about which 
future will provide you with the most freedom
to be entirely yourself."- Gezim Gashi

If you do not want to regret tomorrow,
then forget about where you have been.
Now is not the right time for that.
Because when you live in the past,
you will miss the present.
You will miss all the amazing things that are happening 
right now. Remember, success happens in the present, not in the past.
So do not focus on your past. It is gone.
If don't like what you have done in the past,
change it now. If you don't, you will regret it.

Focus on what you are good at
"Once we know what we love doing 
and are great at it, we will start to find 
new ways to make it happen. 
Windows will open for us and we 
will be willing to leap through them."- Gezim Gashi

If you want to master yourself, focus on what you can do,
not what you cannot do. 
Use the power of what you are good at
to change your life.
And you can do it if you commit to it. Will you commit?