How To Free Yourself From Whatever It Is That Is Holding You Back

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Whatever it is that is holding you back, you can set yourself free. It starts with what you want in your life.

If what you want is bigger than what is holding you back, you can defeat it. You can overcome it. And you can move your life forward.

To set yourself free, you must decide.

‘I know I’m not the only one who, to this day, still sometimes wishes they could just toss a decision over to mom. She’d know what to do.’– Lia Garvin

Make your own decision. Do not delegate your decision-making power to anyone, not even your mom. If you do that, you have given your power away.

To set yourself free, remember that you are not your mistakes.

‘When you realize a mistake wasn’t that big of a deal … then it wasn’t that big of a deal.’– Lia Garvin

Mistakes are not the end of the world. And they are not the end of your life. You are have a life that is bigger than a mistake.

When you make a mistake, own it. Do not beat yourself up for making a mistake. If you do, you will never learn something new.

We learn when we make mistakes, not when we are perfect. Remember, if you are not making mistakes, you are not trying hard enough.

If you want to set yourself free, you must stop thinking about your past failures.

‘The only person thinking about if other people are thinking about you is you.’– Lia Garvin

The only way to see where you are going is to focus on where you are going. The only way to reach where you are going is to stay in your own lane. The only way to succeed in life is to mind your own business.

And the only way to set yourself free is to stop thinking about your past failures.

To set yourself free, you must tell yourself what to do.

‘Our inner critic hates when we set goals, it’s literally like, ‘Who is this bitch to tell me what to do.?”– Lia Garvin

Whether your inner critics like your goals or not, if you want to be successful, you must set your goals. Why? Because you need a target. Your target is your destination. If you want to be successful, you must aim at something bigger than you.

How To Stay Positive Every Day

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At the end of the day, you are responsible for your thoughts.
No one is responsible for your thoughts. And if you don't like 
what you are getting, then check your thoughts. 
You have to do it for yourself.

If you are not happy, it is your choice.
Because if you can change yout thoughts,
you can change your life. 
You can make yourself happy. You can stay positive every day.

You can stay positive every day. What about other people?
People are not positive 
because they are ALWAYS feeding themselves with negative things.
You can't stay positive when your mind is in a dark place.

People are not happy, are not positive, because they 
are always looking for what is not there to make them happy.
Look, if you chase happiness, you are chasing your own shadow.
You can't catch it. It is always ahead of you. 
If you try to, you will run forever.

There is no secret to staying positive every day. 
All it takes is a decision. 
The decision to be happy, to stay positive, no matter what.
Pay attention to your life, to your thoughts, to your actions.
Do the right things. They will never fail you.
Do not ignore your intuition. It is there to help you.

Stay away from blaming other people for your own life.
Look, it doesn't matter what you have done with your life.
No one is perfect. Instead of reliving the past, why not 
take this moment to enjoy yourself, 
to love yourself even more, and 
to appreciate yourself, your life?