Why You Shouldn’t Fight The Negative

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Do not do it. Because you will never win. The best thing to do for yourself is to focus your energy on positive things. Do not focus on negative things. Do not hang out with negative people. Instead of trying to fight the negative, why not focus on loving yourself? Why not focus on what is important to you? Why not do what makes you really happy? Why not commit yourself to why you are alive?

According to Louis Hay, “Fighting the negative is a total waste of time if you really want to make changes in your life. The more you dwell on what you don’t want, the more of it you create.” So if you don’t want more of negative things, do not focus on them. Let them go. Let anger go. Let resentment. Let envy go. Let discouragement go. Let hate go. Let what you don’t want go. Do not create more of them. Why is that? Because everything you do, every thought you think, is creating your future. It is creating your future life. It is feeding your soul.

So if you want positive things in your life, you must stop thinking about negative things. You must focus on healing yourself. You must focus on discovering why you are here. You must focus on giving yourself life. You must focus more on what you have, not on what you do not have. Plant great seeds.

To win in life, you must plant the seeds of love, of faith, of respect, of courage, of kindness, and of compassion. And you can plant them. The question is, will you do it?

How Do You Feel About Yourself?

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You cannot be somebody else. You can only be yourself. Remember that you are not going to be able to get what you want if you do not feel good about yourself. How you see yourself, how you feel about yourself will determine your success. How you feel about yourself will determine your future. Because if you do not like yourself, if you do not feel good about yourself, you will never talk about your future.

Look, no matter how you feel about yourself, if you want to move forward, you must give yourself love. You must believe in yourself. You must believe in your life. And do not forget that self-love is an inside business. Love is an internal business. It is not an external business. When you are good on the inside, outside business will take care of itself. If you do not have love, then you cannot give love to anyone. Because to love others, you must first love yourself.

No matter what, do not fill your mind with negative things. Instead of comparing yourself to others, why not use your time to give yourself more love? You are not ugly. You are beautiful. Do not change yourself because people want you to chnage. When it is time to change, change yourself. And you are the only one who can change you, anyway. No one can change you. Even if things are not going your way, be patient. Be patient. Do worry about it. All you need to do is to connect with yourself. Do not doubt yourself. Why is that? Because doubt it a dream killer. Doubt kills dreams.

If you want to create a better future for yourself, you must change how you see yourself. If you want to make more money, you must believe in yourself. If you want to make yourself happy, you must treat yourself with kindness. Will you do it for you?