No matter what you are going through in your life, no matter what life throws at you, to get to where you are going to, you need a plan.
You need a goal. Because ‘goals give us direction.’ They show us where we are going. They take care of our actions.
No matter where you are, if you want to make a difference in your life, you must stay with your goals. You must stay with what you are doing. You must do the work, the real work.
According to Seth Godin, ‘… Every day you get better at something that isn’t that useful- and you are another day behind others who are learning something more useful.’ He is right.
If you want to achieve your goals, you must stay away from doing things that are not going to make you a better human being, that are going to keep you where you are.
To move on, you have got to face what is right for you, no matter how hard. If you don’t have the courage to face your goals, ‘you … put your goal further away.’ Do not do that.
If you want to succeed in your own life, if you are after your growth, your success, you must ‘do something remarkable.’
You cannot control other people, but you can take care of yourself. People will always be people.
If you are in a place where people don’t treat other people as human beings, it is not about you. It is not about your work. It is not about who you are. It is about them. It is about the place, the culture.
Do not let that bother you. Do not even pay attention to it. When you are there, just focus on what is good about the place. Find something that makes you happy. And focus on that.
When you are disrespected, do not fight back. The best way to respond is to make yourself better, is to increase your worth. Instead of reacting to what is going on around you, use your energy to increase your worth.
Do things that will make you happy. Follow your path. Do not let what is going on in your current place stop you from reaching your future goals.
People will always be people. We are different. If you can make the situation better, give it a shot. If not, then do not waste your time on what is not going to add value to your life.
If you think that it is not going to get better, then you have got to look for a place where people will value you, where people will respect you, where you can add value to people and to yourself.
You have got to keep growing your life. If where you are is not suporting you, you have got to take charge of your life.
Do not wait for anyone to come and help you. The good news is: no one is coming to help you. You have got to help yourself. Because you can help yourself. Because your life is your life. If you are not in charge, someone else is.
Do not go there. Do not let that happen to you. Move your life forward. When you walk away from a terrible place, God is taking you to a new place, a place where you can bring out the best in yourself, a place where you can express your true self.
Do not stuck yourself in a place where people are just nasty, where people are living a fear-based life. If you stay, you are going to start acting like them. Do not go there, my friend. It is a bad situation to be in.
If you want to grow, you must keep going. Do not force people to stay in your life. Your life is better than forcing yourself to stay in a place where you are not valued.
If you do not treat yourself with love, no one is going to treat you with love. If you tolerate abuse, they will give you more. If you do not walk away from an abusive situation, you will never find your happiness.
And you will continue to look for your real self. Is that you?
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