These Quotes Will Help You Organize Your Life

If you want to organize your life, according to Gail Golden, ‘Don’t focus on managing time, focus on managing your energy.’

‘Ignore the people who tell you that life is a marathon. The most productive know that life is not a marathon, it’s a series of sprints.’

Don’t compare your insides to other people’s outsides. Those people who look as if they have it all together? They’re just especially good at hiding how flustered they are.’

‘Expecting yourself to be perfect at everything is a recipe for failure.’

‘Be great at the things that matter to you- the things that have meaning.’

‘Figure out what your greatness is and put your energy there.’

‘Do experiments.’

‘It is not true that you can be great at anything if you just want it enough.’

‘Before you take on new goals and responsibilities, you have to ask yourself, ‘What will I do less of?’

Don’t pretend you’re not feeling what you’re feeling. And don’t tell yourself you shouldn’t feel what you’re feeling.’

‘Consciously and deliberately choose where you will be mediocre.’

‘Ensure that you spend your energy on the things that matter by eliminating the things that don’t.’

‘Discipline and freedom are bound together. You cannot be truly free without discipline. You will be enslaved by your impulses, by instant gratification, by mindlessness. You also cannot be truly disciplined without freedom.’

‘No one can be disciplined in everything all the time.’

‘Know the boundaries.’

‘Live your vision.’

Further Reading:

Gail Golden (2020). Curating Your Life: Ending The Struggle For Work-Life Balance

What You Should Know About A Controlling Person

Freedom is life. It is everything. If you are not free, you are not living. Freedom is more than just walking around.

Freedom is when you have the power to control your life, when you have the courage to do what you love to do. Freedom is when you are comfortable with yourself. It is not when you are under the control of another person.

A controlling person, according to Dr. Lisa Aronson Fontes, ‘often feels stronger when he makes his partner feel powerless and ashamed.’

A controlling person asserts power by setting rules and micromanaging his partner’s everyday life.’

‘A controlling man might accuse his partner of flirting or being involved sexually with friends or coworkers.’

A controlling person feels threatened when his partner’s life doesn’t revolve entirely around his own.’

‘A controlled person cannot reach her full potential.’

‘A controlling man tries to become the only authority in the house and encourages children to disrespect their mother.’

‘The controlling person defines reality. If he says it’s ‘love,’ then it’s ‘love,’ even if it feels like control.’

A controlling person communicates: ‘If you cared about us a couple, you wouldn’t make problems.’ Women keep silent to avoid making waves.’

‘Controlling people often consider themselves victims, evoking their partner’s pity and compassion.’

‘It is difficult for controlling men to change, But staying the same is also difficult.’

No matter what you are going through in your life, remember that ‘you are the one who decides how much is too much.’

As always, you are not a victim; you are a victor. Stay safe!

Further Reading:

Lisa Aronson Fontes, PhD (2015). Invisible Chains: Overcoming Coercive Control in Your Intimate Relationship