Tag: Focusing

The Cost Of Being Right

by Bright Osadiaye, posted in Personal Development, Personal Growth

‘… Even when you’re right announcing you’re right doesn’t make you more right.’- Lia Garvin

If you want to advance your life, do not fight to be right. Because people don’t like to around people who are always right.

Do not fight to be right. Fight to be valuable. Fight to be great at what you are doing. Fight to be yourself, not to be right.

When you are dealing with other people, do not fight to be right. Instead of trying to be right, look for ways to add value to them.

Being right is not going to get you far in your life. It is going to hold you back from reaching your destination. Because no one wants to be around people who are always right.

If you want to grow your life, focus on getting better, not on being right.

When You Are Not Motivated, Remember These People

by Bright Osadiaye, posted in Personal Development, Personal Growth

When you are with these people, they are with you. They are one hundred percent with you. They care about you. They care about what is going on in your life.

They want you to be happy. They want you to achieve your dreams, your goals. They want you to be who you are.

They don’t want you to fake who you are. They want you to live your life, to pursue what makes you happy.

They know what they want. When you are tired, they do not judge you. They bring you back up.

When you are with these people, they ask lots of questions. They ask questions to know how they can help you.

They don’t focus on your mistakes. They do not focus on what you cannot do. They are after how you are going to make progress.

They want you to grow, not to fail. When you fail, they don’t laugh at you. They laugh with you. When you are sick, they call to see how you are doing.

When you are not happy, they show you love. They bring you back to life. They respect you. They value you.

When you are with these people, you don’t want the day to end. So who are these people? They are your supporters. They are your pillars. They are your makers. They are your mentors.