Tag: Feeling

Simplification Is Not About Letting Go. It Is About This

by Bright Osadiaye, posted in Personal Development, Personal Growth

Simplification is about what you want to achieve in your life. It is not about what you want to give away.

It is making things better. It is not about letting things go. It is about letting good things into your life. Yes, it can also be about letting bad things leave your life.

Yes, if you want to create room for growth, you have got to let some things leave your life.

You can simplify your life by being true to yourself. Because things are easier to manage when we are real to ourselves.

You can simplify your life by paying attention to what is not working for you. When you pay attention to what is not working, then you will know where to focus your resources.

Simplification is about making things better for yourself. It is letting go of bad friends, fake friends. It is about making room for growth in your life.

Simplification is about going back to what matters to you. When you are after what you love, when you are after what is important to you, you feel alive.

Before you go, remember this: ‘If you want to create a better life for yourself, you must simplify your life. If you want to get things done, more things done, spend more quality time with your loved ones, you have got to simplify your life.’

So what are you doing to simplify your life today?

‘Who Are You Going To Listen To, Them Or You?’

by Bright Osadiaye, posted in Personal Development, Personal Growth

Listen to yourself, not to them. Real breakthroughs happen when you listen to your inner self, when you have the courage to be you, when you have the courage to say, ‘No matter what, I am going to listen to myself.

Do not waste your time. According to Amber Rose, ‘You only live once. You have to take chances. You have to make your own decisions. You can ask your friends and family for their opinions, but at the end of the day, if you feel very strongly about what you want to do, you should do it. Others can only tell you what they think, an they’re not always right. They’re not you. They’re not you. They don’t know how it feels to be you. You are the only one who knows who you are and where you are going.’

That doesn’t mean you should not listen to your people. But if you are not comfortable with what they have to say, then you can go ahead and do your own thing.

Because you know where you are going. They don’t.