Peace Is Not The Absense Of Problems

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A life without peace is not 
the best way to live.
Peace is not the absence of chaos.
Peace is the ability to live with chaos.

Peace is how we manage our problems.
Because we cannot live without problems.
Peace is not the absence of fear. 
Peace is how we deal with our fears.

If we really want to enjoy our lives,
It is very important to make peace 
With ouselves. Because if we are not
At peace with ourselves, we are not
going to do well in our lives.

The reason why some of us are not 
At peace with themselves, with their lives,
Is that they don't believe in themselves.
They do not believe in what they can do.
They believe other people are better than them.
They are always trying to make other people happy.
They are people pleasers. They live for other people.
They believe in others, not in themselves.
They do not like what they see in the morning
When they wake up. Always against themselves.
They are not comfortable with who they are.

How can you live a peaceful life when you are 
Always against yourself, when you are always against your life?
It is not possible. And it will never be possible.

You have a way forward. You have a path forward.
To go forward, to take a step toward your dreams,
Remember that you are who you are for a reason.
Do not forget that it is better to be you than to
Be somebody else, than to be your fake self.
No matter what, do not try to copy other people.
It is ALWAYS better to be you. And always will be.

Do You Have The Power To Confront Yourself?

“You must confront your fake self to know your real self”

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Can you look yourself in the mirror and confront what you see? Can you ask yourself some serious questions about your life? Can you tell yourself what you need to hear? Can you be really honest with yourself?

It is time, my friend, to stop telling yourself what you want to hear. Your inner self doesn’t want to hear that anymore. Your inner self wants you to be honest with yourself. Because if you don’t understand your true self, you can’t understand your problems. You want to understand your problems, right? It is time to look yourself in the mirror and question what you see.

If you can confront yourself, you can live your real life. You can live fearlessly. According to Henry J. Kaiser, “Live daringly, boldly, fearlessly. Taste the relish to be found in competition- in having put forth the best within you.” Can you put forth the best within you when you don’t even know your real self? To put forth the best within you, you must first confront your fake self. Without that, putting forth the best within you can’t happen.

Nikki Giovanni said, “If you don’t understand yourself you don’t understand anybody else.” When you understand yourself, your true self, life becomes easier for you.

To confront yourself, you must be honest with yourself. You must do the things that will make your life better. You must stop lying to yourself. You must face the enemy within you- the negative self. Your worst enemy is what you tell yourself every day. You have got to stop telling yourself lies about your own future.

If you want to reach your dreams, focus on the process rather than the results. Do not underestimate what you can do. Don’t take things so personally. Have fun. Don’t stop until you succeed. People fail because they just stop trying. Be comfortable with mistakes. Make lots of them, but not the same ones. Mistakes are a fact of life. You can’t do without them. You can’t learn without them. You can’t grow without them. You can’t move forward without them. So when you make mistakes, be happy. But make sure you learn from them. Don’t just make them and wake away. If you do that, you can’t grow.

If you want to succeed in life, you must first confront your fake self. Are you ready to do that?