“Do all that you can do in a perfect manner every day, but do it without haste, worry, or fear. Go as fast as you can, but never hurry. … The moment you begin to hurry you cease to be a creator and become a competitor.”- Wallace D. Wattles
Being busy is not being productive. The world wants productive people, not busy people.
It does not matter what you do, if you are just running around, you are not going to get any thing done. But if you focus, if you evaluate yourself, if you know what you are doing, you do not need to rush. You do not need to compete with other people. All you need to do is to add value to your life.
It does not matter how busy you are. If you are not chasing your purpose, you are chasing nothing.
If you are not making your life a masterpiece, you are making your life a masterpieces.
Do not do that to yourself. Because you are here to conquer yourself, not to conquer others. Why? Because if you cannot conquer yourself, you won’t be able to conquer others. Hold your faith. Do not let it go. You need it. Without faith, there can be no success.
If you want to connect with your soul, you must strive for stillness, not busyness.
Forgiveness is not about other people. Forgiveness is about you. It is the way forward. No matter what people have done to you, forgive them. It is a process. It is not an overnight thing. It is not an overnight event. It takes time to forgive. Do not rush yourself. Just take your time to prepare yourself. Forgiveness is not easy, but it is better for you, for your health, for your life. So if you want to do it, now is the right time to do it.
You can. You will. And you must forgive. Here is how to do it properly:
Change what you believe about yourself
“I change my story by changing what I believe about myself.“- Don Miquel Ruiz
Forgiveness starts with you. It is for you. So to really forgive yourself, to really forgive others, you must first change what you believe about yourself. If you cannot change what you believe about yourself, you cannot forgive yourself.
Learn from your mistakes
Do not let your past mistakes take over your life. It is normal to make mistakes. You cannot grow without them. A mistake is a sign of growth. If you make mistakes, do not beat yourself up. Just learn from them. In the words of Anthony Robbins, “Take the opportunity to learn from your mistakes: find the cause of your problem and eliminate. Don’t try to be perfect; just be an excellent example of being human.” That is why you should make more mistakes. Because learning is not about trying to be perfect, but to get better at what you do.
Until you value yourself, you won’t value your life. And do not expect other people to value you if you cannot value yourself, if you cannot respect yourself. M. Scott Peck once said, “Until you value yourself, you won’t value your time.” Why is that? Because your life is time. And time is your life. Remember, if you value your life, you won’t waste your time. No matter what, do not let anyone put you down. You must surround yourself with great people. To do that, you must first value yourself. You must believe in yourself. If not, you can’t do it.
Thank God for all He has done for you
According to Mary Manin Morrissey, “Thank you, God. I may not have reached my dream, but I am grateful for that which I do possess.” Yes, to get more in life, you must first appreciate what you have. You must focus on what God has given to you, not what you do not have. When you appreciate what you have, you will have more to be grateful for.
“Act happy, feel happy, be happy…”
“Act happy, feel happy, be happy, without a reason in the world. Then you can love, and do what you will.”- Dan Millman
Remember that the essence of life is to be happy. And it is your responsibility to make yourself happy. No matter what is going on in your life, do not forget to make yourself happy.
To forgive yourself, you must surround yourself with great people. Who are they? Why are they different? They are for you, not against you. They are for your dreams, not against your dreams. When you are with great people, you can do what you will. According to Og Mandino, ” Do not listen to those who weep and complain, for their disease is contagious.” So let me ask you. Who are the people around you?
“Never compare yourself or your achievements with others.”
Focus on what you are doing. Others are doing their own things. Don’t worry about what others are getting, what others are doing, or where they are going. That is not your business. What you are doing is your business, is your responsibility, not what others are doing. Focus on yourself. If you want to compete, compete with yourself. It is simple, but hard to do. When it comes to living your life, do what Norman Vincent Peale said. Norman Vincent Peale said, “Never compare yourself or your achievements with others.” If you have the courage to compete with yourself, you will have the courage to live a great life. Because it takes courage to live a great life.