Tag: Failure

How To Get Back Up

by Bright Osadiaye, posted in Personal Development

Things are going to happen to you that you can’t control. Things are going to shake who you are.

When they happen, don’t stay down. If you want to make progress in your life, you must get back up.

To get back up, according to Anthony J. Klarica, you must ‘break challenges down into manageable parts to help address them.’ If you want to be successful at what you are doing, don’t do everything at the same time. Focus on what can make a difference in your life.

‘Be prepared for injuries, setbacks and disappointments, appreciating that they too are part of the journey.’ Life is full of obstacles. When they happen, take them as learning opportunities.

‘Respect the fine line between winning and losing, and learn how to lose.‘ Life is a testing ground. It is your laboratory. It is your own personal university. When you fall, get back up.

When you fail, do it again. Because it is the only way to win. If you want to win more, you must fail more. Remember, success comes from failure. If you want to win, learn how to fail.

‘Reflect on resilient stories from others you can relate to in order to sustain your own resilience.’

Your journey is special to you. If you are having trouble making progress, reach out for help. People are willing to help. But you must first help yourself. You do that by reaching out to them.

Remember, resilience is about how you handle your situation. It is also about how you carry yourself.

When you are down, don’t stay down. Get back up. When you fall, get back up. And keep going. Be patient. You will get to where you want to be.

As always, you are more, not less!

Source: Anthony J. Klarica (2022). The performance Mindset: 7 Steps to Success in Sport and Life

Fear Does Not Mean Stop. It Means This

by Bright Osadiaye, posted in Personal Development
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If going forward in your life scares you, you are not alone. If taking your first step makes you uncomfortable, you are not alone. If going after your dreams scares you, you are doing the right thing.

You are not wasting your time. You are using your time wisely. You are trying. You are getting better. You are learning. Above all, you are tired of where you are.

You want to see something new in your own life. You want to experience a new life. They are cool, right? But to get to the other side, you have walls to climb. You have some boxes to unpack. You have some mathematical equations to solve.

If you can solve them, success is yours. If you can face your fears, you are more likely to do well in your life. You are more likely to meet other successful people. They are people who have done what you want to do, being to where you want to be.

They made it because they had the courage to face their fears. They didn’t run away from them.

So if you want to get to the other side of your life, you can do it. You can get there. You don’t have to worry about anything. Because you are not going there alone. God is going with you. God will never let you down.

But you have to do your part. You have to do your work, even when you do not know how to do it. God will not put you down. Because He knows that the road ahead is not going to be easy.

God is who you need when you don’t know what is going to happen in the future. No matter where you are in your life, no matter what is standing right in front of you, you can face it. Do not be afraid. Fear means go, not stop.

You have what it takes to do what you want to do. You have what it takes to face failure. Because you will never succeed in your life if you are scared to fail. Accept it. Because failure is the gateway to your success. So if you want to be successful in your life, you must act courageously.

As always, You are more, not less!