Tag: Criticism

If You Support Yourself, That Is Good Enough

by Bright Osadiaye, posted in Personal Development, Personal Growth
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Your dream is your dream. Your life is your life. And your future is yours. If you are for yourself, no one can be against you.

If you are for your dreams, no one is going to be against them. Because they are your dreams. Because of that, do not expect everybody to love them, to support them, to nurture them. It won’t happen.

Some will criticize you. Some will call you names. Some will ignore it. Some will even stop talking to you. While others will just wait and see what is going to happen.

Rather than allowing them to demotivate you, why not use their negative words to power yourself to the next level? Do not worry about them. Because they don’t know what they are doing. They don’t know your dreams. They don’t know where you are going. And they are not happy with you. Because you are getting things done. Because you know where you are going.

Whether they are happy with you or not, you are enough. If you are for yourself, if you are for your dreams, if you are for your growth, no one can be against you. So keep being. Keep doing. And keep going. You will get there!

Stop Criticizing Yourself

by Bright Osadiaye, posted in Personal Development, Personal Growth
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Life is not about criticizing what you have,
who you are, your mistakes.
Life is about you. It is about your purpose.
It is about others. It is about appreciating what you have,
your uniqueness, your beauty, yourself, your soul.
It is about loving yourself, no matter what. 
It is about supporting yourself.

So stop criticizing your life. Stop criticizing yourself.
Do not forget that you are who you are for a reason.
Follow your reason. Follow your purpose. Follow yourself.

We are human beings. You are a human being.
So you are not perfect. No one is.
Stop trying to be who you are not. It is exhauting. 
Instead of pretending to be who you are not, 
why not use your energy to support yourself,
to bring out the best in yourself, to love yourself?

You have enough to be grateful for. Focus on them.
Do not focus on what is not there. 
Stop criticizing yourself for what you do not have. 
To live a joyful life, you must praise yourself.
You must be there for yourself. 
And you must always be there for yourself.