Tag: Criticism

Stop Criticizing Yourself

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Life is not about criticizing what you have,
who you are, your mistakes.
Life is about you. It is about your purpose.
It is about others. It is about appreciating what you have,
your uniqueness, your beauty, yourself, your soul.
It is about loving yourself, no matter what. 
It is about supporting yourself.

So stop criticizing your life. Stop criticizing yourself.
Do not forget that you are who you are for a reason.
Follow your reason. Follow your purpose. Follow yourself.

We are human beings. You are a human being.
So you are not perfect. No one is.
Stop trying to be who you are not. It is exhauting. 
Instead of pretending to be who you are not, 
why not use your energy to support yourself,
to bring out the best in yourself, to love yourself?

You have enough to be grateful for. Focus on them.
Do not focus on what is not there. 
Stop criticizing yourself for what you do not have. 
To live a joyful life, you must praise yourself.
You must be there for yourself. 
And you must always be there for yourself.

This Is The Most Difficult Thing To Be

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Why are you living other people’s dreams? Why are you trying to be who you are not? C’mon, no matter what is going on in your life, you have a lot going well for you. Why not focus on what is going well for you? Why not use the time you have on earth to make a difference?

“The most difficult thing to be is what other people want you to be.”- Leo Buscaglia

In my opinion, that is better than wasting it on worthless things. If you don’t get what you want, be patient. Sometimes it takes time to discover the genius within you.When things are not working, be patient with yourself. Do not beat yourself up. Do not criticize yourself. When life is not treating you fairly, do not give up. Giving up on your dreams means you are giving up on yourself.

“The easiest thing to be in the world is you.”- Leo Buscaglia

You don’t want to do anything anymore. You are saying to yourself, ‘I am done!” Good or bad, do not quit. Keep going, keep learning, and keep loving your life.

The key to success is honesty. It attracts other like-minded people into your life. It takes courage to represent yourself. Martha Beck says, “No matter how difficult and painful it may be, nothing sounds as good to the soul as the truth.”

Truth is freedom. And freedom is responsibility. Truth is peace. And peace is a creator. Truth is responsibility. And responsibility is freedom. When you are responsible, you are free. According to Paulo Coelho, “Freedom is not the absence of commitments, but the ability to choose – and commit myself to- what is best for me.” You have a lot of ‘what is best’ for you. No matter what is going on in your life, look for the positive things in your life and focus on them.