How To Accept Imperfect Things

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Stop monitoring who owes what

If you want a more harmonious relationship, stop monitoring who owes what.’- Haemin Sunim

Who is an unfortunate person?

‘Who is an unfortunate person? One who looks at other people and sees only their flaws.’– Haemin Sunim

Don’t assume another bus will be coming

‘Don’t assume another bus will be coming. Sometimes the route will be changed, and you will never get another chance to catch the bus you missed.‘- Haemin Sunim

Do not be afraid of making mistakes

‘Do not be afraid of making mistakes. Be afraid only of not learning from your mistakes. An expert is someone who has acquired skills and knowledge by making a lot of mistakes.’- Haemin Sunim

Move on to the next one

Even if it’s not perfect, set it aside and move on to the next thing. The idea of ‘perfection’ exists only in your mind, and may not be the same for everyone.’- Haemin Sunim

Frustration and failure are a part of life

‘Frustration and failure are a part of life. If we do not flee from them but accept them calmly, we come to know what we need to do next.’- Haemin Sunim

Do not criticize people ahead of you

‘Do not try to promote yourself by criticizing people ahead of you.If you do, you, too, will be criticized by those behind you.’

If You Support Yourself, That Is Good Enough

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Your dream is your dream. Your life is your life. And your future is yours. If you are for yourself, no one can be against you.

If you are for your dreams, no one is going to be against them. Because they are your dreams. Because of that, do not expect everybody to love them, to support them, to nurture them. It won’t happen.

Some will criticize you. Some will call you names. Some will ignore it. Some will even stop talking to you. While others will just wait and see what is going to happen.

Rather than allowing them to demotivate you, why not use their negative words to power yourself to the next level? Do not worry about them. Because they don’t know what they are doing. They don’t know your dreams. They don’t know where you are going. And they are not happy with you. Because you are getting things done. Because you know where you are going.

Whether they are happy with you or not, you are enough. If you are for yourself, if you are for your dreams, if you are for your growth, no one can be against you. So keep being. Keep doing. And keep going. You will get there!