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There Is No Growth Without Pain

by Bright Osadiaye, posted in Health & Well-Being, Personal Development, Personal Growth, Spirituality
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“We grow the most as human beings during our toughest times.”

Robin Sharma

Growth comes with pain. Without pain, without change, there is no growth. If you want to grow, you must be ready to endure the impossible. There is no growth without pain. There is no growth without doing something that will make you really uncomfortable. Growth is scary. We fear growth. We fear growth because we don’t want to fail. But if you don’t change, if you don’t have the courage to face your fears, how can you grow?

“This, too, shall pass.”

Eppie Lederer

We don’t like change. We don’t like to change our old ways of doing things. Believe me, my friend, if you want to develop a new habit, you must let go of your old ways of doing things. You must allow yourself to be vulnerable. Remember that the pain that comes with change is not permanent; it is a temporary one.

According to Eppie Lederer, “Expect trouble as an inevitable part of life and repeat to yourself, the most comforting words of all; this, too, shall pass.” Yes, this, too, shall pass. Nothing is permanent in life. Know that we can’t go anywhere without change. Yes, it comes with pain. But if you don’t persevere, what do you think will happen to your future? The future that you are fighting for starts today. If you are scared of change, you will miss your future. Do you want to miss your future?

Who Do You Want In Your Life?

by Bright Osadiaye, posted in Health & Well-Being, Personal Development, Personal Growth
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“Truth springs from argument among friends.”-

David Hume

Who do you really want in your life? Who are you spending your time with? We love our friends.But the real question is: “Are we growing or dying?”

We cannot grow if we don’t have the right people in our lives. We can’t do it all. We need people to help us succeed. We need the right people in our lives to help us grow. But we can’t find the right people if we keep hanging out with the wrong people. We have to make room for the right people to come into our lives. And we also have to make room for the wrong people to live us alone. Yes, alone.

Sometimes we find it difficult to tell people what we want. But, look, if you don’t have the courage to tell people what you want, they will give you what you don’t want. In other words, they will give you the wrong things. When you ask, will you get. If you don’t ask, you won’t get anything. It is better to ask for what you want and need than to keep quiet.

If you want to grow in your life, you need the right people to help you grow and succeed in your life. You don’t need people who will come into your life and waste your precious time. Do not let that happen to you. You need to surround yourself with people who are ready and willing to invest in you. Surround yourself with people who are praying for you to grow, who are ready to tell you what you need to hear, not what you want to hear. Surround yourself with people who are saying positive things about you and your dreams.

Your personal growth is in your hands. But you can’t grow if you don’t have the courage to remove the things that are holding you back. You can’t move forward if you keep moving with the wrong people. You must let them go. Learn how to let go. You don’t need them in your life. You need to grow.

If you are not growing in your life, it is time to check who your friends are. It is time to check how you are spending your time. If you are wasting your time with the wrong people, it is time to leave them alone. It is time to focus on your dreams. Because you can’t get to your destination without the right people in your life. You need them. They are out there. They are those who will not judge or criticize your dreams. Instead they will do everything to help you succeed in your life. They will motivate you. They will inspire you. They will give you the time you need to think and grow. They are open to answering your questions. They will Never discourage you. They will be with you all the way to the end.

You must know who you really want in your life. If you don’t know, you can’t attract them.

Who do you want in your life?