Recruitthebest Daily Digest- On Caring

Care leverages the authority to challege others. Without care, challenge is destructive. Yet without challenge, care is powerless.’

True care does not always feel comfortable.’

When we function outside of self, we have the uncommon ability to not only see the whole system but see past, present, and future, and act accordingly.’

Our care for the other grants us the authority to act out of self and therefore act directly, speak clearly and candidly, and challenge mindfully, thus serving the whole.’

Care serves the whole, rather than individual needs or preferences.’

When care is impulsive, our actions are often misattuned, and we end up applying the wrong tool for the job.’

‘Care is the foundation for any transformative and positive change.’

What then is real care?

‘Care is that genuine desire to attend to the needs of others.’

The leader is the one who is not the mightiest or the most domineering but who cares the most…’

Source:

Kelly Wendorf (2020). Flying Lead Change: 56 Million Years of Wisdom for Leading and Living

How To Get To The Top On Your Own Terms

You can get to the top if you are willing to do the work. You must, according to Josh Altman, ‘constantly be creating your own opportunities.’

Whatever you are doing right now, do it well. Because it is the beginning of where you are going. Your future depends on what you are doing right now.

According to Lauren Maillian Bias, ‘It doesn’t matter why the door opens. If it opens, don’t hesitate to walk through it, but be prepared to work harder than expected. Expectations of you are always higher than they may outwardly seem.’

‘Learn to clearly communicate in a way that commands respect, but isn’t abrasive.’

Always be committed to the job at hand. Do it well and get noticed enough to move forward.’

Show that you can persevere with grace during difficult situations. Problems are a part of life, and we all encounter them, but how you handle them will be most memorable.’

When people show you their true colors, believe them. Don’t make excuses for other people’s negative behaviors.’

Treat everyone like a rock star.’

Know when to hold out for what’s most important to you.’

Always be the bigger person and rise above the nonsense. Remember: The actions of those who would tear you down are a reflection of them. Don’t let someone win by dragging you into his or her mud puddle.’

Own your voice, control your narrative, and be deliberate in your communication.’

You are your reputation, not your company or your title. It’s all about you– the impresssions you leave, the interests you pique, the conversations you start.’

Stay grounded and never lose sight of your moral compass.’

Seek to work with people with integrity. You can always find higher ground when you’re working with good people.’

Every time you’re faced with a major decision, ask yourself: ‘Is it worth it even if I fail?’ If the answer is ‘yes,’ go for it!’

Live life on your terms. Do what works best for your life as defined by you and no one else.’

Source:

Lauren Maillian Bias (2014). The Path Redefined: Getting to The Top on Your Own Terms