Tag: Building Relationships

Are You Empty?

by Bright Osadiaye, posted in Personal Development, Personal Growth
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Take care of yourself. It is the best thing you can do for yourself, for your people, for your community, and for the world. Self-care is important.

Do not say, ‘I do not have time to do that.’ You do have enough time to do what is important to you, to your growth.

The question is, ‘How are you spending your time?’ To take care of yourself, you need time. You need your full self. And you need your attention.

If you are not with yourself, it is hard to take care of yourself.

Remember that time is everything. If no time for your life, no one will have time for your life.

What you can’t do for yourself, what you can’t give yourself, no one can do it for you. To have a better life, you have got to do it for yourself.

Because it is hard to help other people when we don’t know who we are, when we can’t even take care of ourselves.

To take care of other people, you must first take care of yourself.

Is It Important To Know What Your Friends Are Doing?

by Bright Osadiaye, posted in Personal Development, Personal Growth

‘It’s important to have people who hold you accountable and on track, and who you have to answer to; it’s also important to answer to yourself.’- Mick Spencer

Who are your friends? What are they doing? Are they doing anything to improve their lives? If they are doing something, what are they doing?

Because it is important to know what your friends are doing. If you are with people who are not doing anything to improve their lives, what do you think they are going to do to your own dreams?

Are they going to help you grow? Or are they going to help you stay where you are?

Remember, life is not about bad friends. Life is about growth. If you want to grow, you must surround yourself with people who are not scared to tell you what you need to hear, not what you want to hear.

If your friends are not helping you, they are hurting you. To grow, you must put yourself in the right place. If not, you are not going anywhere.

If that is what you want for yourself, then don’t do anything to change your life. But if that is not what you want for your life, you must get rid of people who are holding you back.