Tag: Excellence

Thriving In A Chaotic World

by Bright Osadiaye, posted in Health & Well-Being, Improve Academy, Leadership, Management, Personal Development, Workplace Learning Report

‘When we aspire toward intimacy with what matters to us, we overcome alienation and disconnection and feel more at home in the world.’

‘Working on concrete tasks with objective and measurable results is a source of deep satisfaction and helps to keep us humble and grounded.’

‘By building multiple rooms in your identity house, you become less fragile, gain resilience, and bolster yourself against setbacks.’

‘It is important that your goals align with your values.’

‘Worry less about heroic days and more about creating a heroic body of work.’

‘Show up every day and give what you’ve got.’

‘Whenever possible, keep it simple and be wary of hiding behind complexity.’

‘You don’t need to feel good to get going; you need to get going to give yourself a chance to feel good.’

‘The more stress in your life, the more you should try to offset it with rest.’

‘Rest and renewal do not come at the expense of your primary pursuit; they are integral parts of your primary pursuit and your commitment to excellence.’

‘Never prejudge performance.’

Source:

Brad Stulberg (2026). The Way of Excellence: A Guide to True Greatness and Deep Satisfaction in a Chaotic World

Stop Feeling Unworthy

by Bright Osadiaye, posted in Personal Development

We are chasing different dreams. We are not going to achieve the same results. We are going to live in different places. We are not going to buy the same things. Why is that?

Because we are different. Because that is who we are. Nothing is going to change that. And you are not going to be able to change yourself into something you are not. It won’t work.

If you try it, you are not yourself. You are not who you are, the real you. You are living a fake life. You are moving away from your real self. And that is hard to keep.

If you are not yourself, if you don’t feel worthy, if you think you are not good enough, if you think other people are better than you, then you are in for a long walk.

If you want to achieve success, if you really want to be present for yourself, if you want to be there for yourself, you must stop saying negative things about your life.

Because negative thoughts equal negative results. If you want different results, then you have got to think better thoughts. If your thoughts are good, your results will be good. If your thoughts are poor, weak, negative, your results will be the same.

That is why you should always treat yourself the right way. If you want to see light in your life, then speak light into your life.

If you want to experience love in your life, then send love into the world. If you want to attract great people, then you must be great yourself.

If you want to produce better results, you must first improve yourself.

That is what great people do. That is what great laeders do. They don’t say negative things. Instead, they pour love into their lives.

You can do the same. You can turn your life around. All you need to do is to change how you treat yourself. If you change how you treat yourself, your life will change.

Will you do it?