Tag: Worth

Stop Feeling Unworthy

by Bright Osadiaye, posted in Personal Development

We are chasing different dreams. We are not going to achieve the same results. We are going to live in different places. We are not going to buy the same things. Why is that?

Because we are different. Because that is who we are. Nothing is going to change that. And you are not going to be able to change yourself into something you are not. It won’t work.

If you try it, you are not yourself. You are not who you are, the real you. You are living a fake life. You are moving away from your real self. And that is hard to keep.

If you are not yourself, if you don’t feel worthy, if you think you are not good enough, if you think other people are better than you, then you are in for a long walk.

If you want to achieve success, if you really want to be present for yourself, if you want to be there for yourself, you must stop saying negative things about your life.

Because negative thoughts equal negative results. If you want different results, then you have got to think better thoughts. If your thoughts are good, your results will be good. If your thoughts are poor, weak, negative, your results will be the same.

That is why you should always treat yourself the right way. If you want to see light in your life, then speak light into your life.

If you want to experience love in your life, then send love into the world. If you want to attract great people, then you must be great yourself.

If you want to produce better results, you must first improve yourself.

That is what great people do. That is what great laeders do. They don’t say negative things. Instead, they pour love into their lives.

You can do the same. You can turn your life around. All you need to do is to change how you treat yourself. If you change how you treat yourself, your life will change.

Will you do it?

How To Get More Important Things Done

by Bright Osadiaye, posted in Personal Development, Personal Growth

You can do more. You have what it takes to do more, to get more important things done. Getting busy is good. It is not a bag thing. The question is, ‘What are we busy doing?’

Just getting busy for the sake of getting busy is not going to get you what you want. You are not going to be able to achieve your dreams by doing the wrong things.

You are not going to arrive at where you are going if you are on the wrong path. Unless you change what you are doing, what you are getting is going to stay the same.

Unless you change your thoughts, your actions are going to stay the same. Unless you change what you are doing right now, where you are going is not going to change. Your results are not going to change.

To change where you are going, to get more done, get yourself together. Get your thoughts together. Do not worry about your results. Because what you are doing right now is not the end of your growth. It is just the beginning of your growth. And no one can grow, no one can do more if we are not willing to fail, if we are scared to be who we are. And if we are not willing to make ourselves uncomfortable.

To get more done, ask yourself, ‘What is it that I really want to achieve in my life? What is stopping me from doing it? Why am I not there yet? What is holding me back? How am I going to get over what is holding me back? What am I going to do? Who can help me?

Be real when you are answering the above questions. Do not lie. If you lie, you will never grow. Why is that? Because growth starts with honesty.

Say positive things to yourself. When you are going through challenges, say something like, ‘I can do this. I have done it before.’ Positive words relaxe our nerves. Negative words depress our nerves.

To get more done, focus on what is important to you, what you want to get done. When it comes to getting more done, it is not about more. It is about doing what is important to you, not what is urgent.

Remember, when it comes to getting more done, activity is not productivity. Do not forget that.