Month: March 2022

How To Get To “A Place Of Kindness And Caring”

by Bright Osadiaye, posted in Personal Development, Personal Growth
Photo by Pixabay

There is no way to self-improvement and strength but by loving and celebrating yourself, your life, your accomplishments in the present moment.

Stop complaining. stop fighting for what is not yours. You are not perfect. Instead of trying to be perfect, why not focus on improving your life. If you can do that for yourself, it will help you a lot. It will bring peace and harmony into your life.

Epictectus once said, “If you wish to improve yourself, be content to be seen as ignorant or clueless about some things.”

What you know is your power. So do not worry about what you do not know. But it does not mean you should ignore it. But do not let it bother you.

Remember that life is not going to give you everything. So do not worry about what is not there. You have a lot going well for you. Focus on them. Reflect on them. Celebrate them. Sharon Salzberg says, “When you recognize and reflect on even one good thing about yourself, you are building a bridge to a place of kindness and caring.” She is right.

If you want to enjoy your life, if you want to make peace with your inner self, you must learn how to reflect on what is going well for you. When you do that, you will have more to celebrate.

You Are Not Lost

by Bright Osadiaye, posted in Personal Development, Personal Growth
Photo by Elena Saharova

“You are not lost. It’s just that your own thoughts are being kept from you, or hidden away.”- Haruki Murakami

No matter what is going on in your life, “you are not lost.” You are alive. And it will all come to pass. Remember that nothing is permanent in life. Do not regret your life, celebrate it.

Life is a gift. It is a gift to be alive, to do what we love to do, to love, to breathe, to lift other people up. In the words of Michael Crichton, “Life is beautiful. It’s a gift to be alive, to see the sun and breathe the air.” Isn’t that good enough?

Since you are still here, don’t waste it. You can still do whatever you want to do for yourself. You can still live your life in your own way. You can still change your life. It is not too late. And you can do it.

“Life is beautiful.” And it is yours to live, to accept, to love. Live it. Do not worry about the past. Let the past take care of itself. Take care of yourself. You do that by focusing on the things that make you feel alive, that make you come alive, that bring love into your life.

“Life is beautiful.” Keep making yourself happy. Keep loving the real you. Keep moving forward. And stop living in the past. When you stop living in the past, you will start living in the present.

“Life is beautiful.” To enjoy it, to live it, to explore it, to change it, to accept it, to love it, you must accept your life. Dr. Phil says, “You can’t be you if you don’t know you.” You can’t live a beautiful life if you don’t know who you are. What do you think?