Month: May 2021

How To Make The Right Choices In Life

by Bright Osadiaye, posted in Personal Development, Personal Growth, Spirituality
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Photo by engine Akyurt

If you are not living your true life, you are not making the right choices.

Life is about making choices. In the words of Deepak Chopra, “To make the right choices in life, you have to get in touch with your soul. To do this, you need to experience solitude, which most people are afraid of, because in the silence you hear the truth and know the solutions” Because your soul matters. Yes, it does.

Above all, you cannot get in touch with your soul if you carry fear in your heart.

The only way to connect with your soul is to carry love in your heart. You cannot connect with yourself if you don’t like yourself.

And you live your best life when you love yourself. And you do your best work when you make the right choices.

If you don’t doubt yourself, you are not making the right choices.

Why Are You Waiting For Somebody Else To Fix You?

by Bright Osadiaye, posted in Personal Development, Personal Growth, Spirituality
Man in White Crew Neck T-shirt Holding Woman in Blue Dress
Photo by Julia Larson

I can’t fix you. Only you can fix yourself. Do not wait for somebody to come and fix you.

One way to fix yourself is to know what to stop doing. If what you are doing is not helping you, stop it.

“You are responsible for fixing yourself.”

Fixing yourself is not about changing your body shape; it is about changing your mindset. It is about how you see yourself, your life, your work. Rupi Kaur writes, “If you are not enough for yourself, you will never be enough for someone else.” You are good enough for yourself. You are good enough for your family. And you are good enough for the world. Because you are you.

You can’t fix yourself without first fixing your mind. Because everything happens in your mind.

If you take care of your mind, your body will take care of itself. Fixing is about your mind, not about your body. Your body has nothing to do with it.

“You are responsible for saving yourself.”

Fixing your life is about acceptance. It is about accepting who you are. It is not about beating yourself up. It is not about rejecting yourself. It is not about rejecting your life. It is about loving yourself. It is about loving your life.

Do not wait for people to fix you. Fix yourself. Because you are responsible for your life. According to Oprah Winfrey, “You are responsible for your life- and when you get that, everything changes. … So don’t wait for somebody else to fix you, to save you or complete you.” No one can do that. Only you have the power to fix yourself. Why not go ahead and do it?