Stop Proving Yourself To People Who Will Never Love You

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If you want your life to make sense to you, you must stop proving yourself to people who will never love you. You are not here on earth to prove yourself to anyone, but yourself. You must learn to be comfortable with yourself. If you are comfortable with yourself, then you don’t have to prove yourself to anyone.

You have nothing to show to anyone. You are who you are. You are not comparing your accomplishments to the accomplishments of other people. You are comfortable with yourself. Don’t look down on yourself. You are good enough. You are a unique human being. You should celebrate your uniqueness, not abuse it.

If you are around people who don’t know your worth, you don’t have to prove yourself to them. Let them know who you are, what you stand for, and what matters to you. Don’t worry about them. Worry about you and where you are going. That is good enough.

They don’t have to like what you are doing. But if you like what you are doing, that is what matters. Learn to be comfortable with people who don’t know you. If you are comfortable with them, judgement will disappear. Whether they know you or not, you have nothing to prove to anyone. Do you?

Stop Worrying About What You Cannot Change

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You can’t change everything that is happening around you. But you can change one thing: YOU CAN CHANGE YOURSELF. Your job is to focus on how you are going to reach your goals.

The more you worry about what you cannot change, the more you are wasting your time. Worry is nothing but a joke! Instead of worrying about your life, your job, or your relationships, why not focus on what you are going to do to make it better. That is what you should be doing. Stop wasting your time. You can get everything back, but not your time.

Focus on solutions, not problems. You can’t solve a problem by focusing on a problem. But you can change the entire situation when you focus on solutions. Worry doesn’t make things better. Worry steals your time away. Worry doesn’t change who you are. Worry makes your life miserable. It keeps you in the dark. it steals your happiness away. Worry steals your joy away. It keeps you in your worry zone.

If you want to live your life, you must stop worrying about what you cannot change. You must learn to focus your time and attention on what you can do to make things better for you and the people around you. You are better than worry. You are better than what worry is giving you. You can do better than that. You can do it. You have done it before; you can do it again. Start now!