Put Yourself First, Not Last

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Stop putting yourself last. You are not going to be able to help other people if you do not stop putting yourself last.

Stop it! Stop putting yourself down. It is not helping you. If you want to lift other people up, you must first lift yourself up.

If you want to change the world, you must first change yourself. If you want to build a strong house, you must have a solid foundation.

If you do not have a solid foundation, you won’t be able to live a normal life.

If you can’t live a normal life, you are not living at all. Is that good for you? Is that what you want?

Remember, you are a special human being. You are different. You are unique.

When you are helping other people, do not forget who you are. Do not forget what you want. And do not forget what you stand for.

Above all, do not forget the relationship you have with yourself. If you do not maintain the best relationship with yourself, then you are in trouble.

Why? Because if you don’t love yourself, you won’t be able to love other people.

If you do not have a great relationship with yourself, it is going to be difficult to build positive relationships with others.

If you want to life your life on your own terms, you must stop putting yourself last.

Instead of putting yourself last, instead of putting yourself down, instead of taking yourself for granted, why not take good care of yourself?

Know What You Want

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I do not know what you want. Whatever it is that you are going after, you can get it.

First, you have got to believe in yourself that you can do it. Second, you have got to know what you really want?

It is important. Why is that? Because if you do not know what you want, if you do not know why you are pursuing your dreams, you are not going to get what you want.

To achieve success, you must know what you want.

When you know what you want, you will know how to go about getting it. And you will know how to walk around anything that is standing in your way.

When you know what you want, it is easier to do things that will keep you going.

If you do not know what you want, that is okay. Self-knowledge is not a sprint. Self-knowledge is a marathon.

Take your time to figure out what you want for your life. It is better to go after what you want than to go after what people want you to do.

Even when you succeed, you are not going to be happy with yourself.

Do not rush through your life. It is better to learn through your life than to rush through it.

It is better to do what you want, not what people want you to do.

Remember, you have one life to live. If you want to live it really well, you must do whatever it takes to live your life on your own terms.