Tag: Work

Whining Is Not Winning. It is This

by Bright Osadiaye, posted in Personal Development, Personal Growth
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Whining is not the solution. The solution is work, more work. Whining makes things worse. Winning makes us feel better about ourselves. When you win, you want to win more. You want to do more work. You want to be out there. You want to create more. Because we are creators.

When you cry, complain, you are just wasting your time. Why is that? Because nobody cares. If you want to win, you must get yourself back up and get to work.

Remember that what you are doing you are doing it first for yourself, then for others. You are not just working to earn a living. You are working to build a life, to make a difference.

That is what happens when we work. We make a difference. We grow ourselves. We meet great people. We learn from other people. And our social lives get bigger.

When you compain about everything that is happening around you, you have given up. If you do that, you will lose the fight.

To win is not to complain. To win is to fight for what you want, for what you believe in. To win is to get back up and keep going. It is not to stay in bed. If you are still in bed, it is time to get back up. It is time to stop complaining. It is time to stop whining. It is time to get to work. It is time to reconnect with your drive. And it is time to believe in what you are doing, and that you can do it.

And you can do it. Why not get to work?

You Are Not What You Are Telling Yourself

by Bright Osadiaye, posted in Personal Development, Personal Growth
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Ask yourself, ‘Can I get better?’

Yes, you can get better at anything. You can get better at anything. We can get better. We get better when we do the work. We get better when we are willing to put ourselves out there, when we are willing to try new things.

We can get better when we practice to win, not to lose. We get better when we focus on what is important to us, not on what is urgent.

We can get better when we are true to ourselves, when we are not afraid to express ourselves.

You can do the same. If you are struggling right now, that is okay. With more work, focus, you can change your situation. You can get better. Do not get frustrated. If you are serious about improving yourself, you must get to work. It is okay to talk about what you want to achieve for yourself. If you want it to happen, you must take action.

Don’t just talk about what you are going to do to change your life. People want to see action. People want you to show them what you are going to do to change yourself. And you can do something. Because you are in charge of your life.

You are not powerless. You have what it takes to get things done for yourself. If you really want to improve your life, you must take charge of your life.

If not now, when are you going to start?