How To Live Your Own Life Well

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Your life is your life. You should live it in your own way. You are not here to joke around. You are here on this earth to live your own life. If you are not living it now, when are you going to start living it?

You can’t live other people’s lives- only your own life. People want you to live their lives, but not yours. They want you to be different. They don’t want you to think for yourself. But no one is telling you to think for yourself. Why? So that they can control your life.

You must learn to think for yourself. You must learn to lead your life. You must learn to take charge of your life. You must be comfortable living your life. Do not apologize for your lifestyle. It is yours.

Believe in yourself. Don’t let people talk you out of your dreams. There are lots of people out there who are ready to tell you how to live your life, but no one is willing to tell you how to live your TRUE life.

To live your life, you must be a risk taker. Don’t just take risks, but take calculated ones. Don’t fear to experiment with what you don’t know. That is how we learn. That is how we get better at what we do. That is how we master our lives.

If you are afraid to take risks, then you are afraid to grow. There is no growth without risks. Don’t let fear master you. You must do whatever is within your power to master fear. If you can master fear, you are free to live your life.

Whatever it is you want to do, do it with all your might. Do not quit. Even if you are not getting what you want, don’t quit. Just do things differently, or you can change where you are going to. Do not blame anyone for where you are. It is your life. Live it well.

If You Want To Be Happy, You Must Learn To Value Yourself

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“Learn to value yourself, which means: to fight for your happiness.- Ayn Rand, writer

“Happiness can exist only in acceptance.”- George Orwell

If you want to live a happy life, you must accept who you are. You must accept your failures, your mistakes, your strengths and weaknesses. Learn how to be happy and comfortable with yourself. You are unique. You are special.

You are who you are. Nobody can change you. You can change yourself by changing your mind. If you want to change yourself, start by changing how you think and what you consistently think about yourself. The rest will follow.

Once you allow your mind to accept who you are, there is nothing anyone can do to change you, or to make you unhappy. Nobody can make you unhappy. Only you can make yourself unhappy. You do that by trying to live other people’s lives. If you try to be who you are not, you are painfully living someone else’s life. How painful is that? Very painful!

Live your life. Accept yourself. “Nobody is better than you.” Say it to yourself every day. Thank you for saying it!