Tag: Talking

Do Something About It

by Bright Osadiaye, posted in Personal Development, Personal Growth

Where are you right now in your life? Wherever you are, embrace it. That is where you are supposed to be.

It is for you. Whatever is going on there, it is working for you, not against you.

Be there to live it, to experience it. Stop talking about what is not working. Because talk is just talk. It can’t change anything. Instead, it makes them worse.

So if you really want to make a difference in your life, you have to start taking actions.

You have got to start doing, not talking. You have got to start doing, not thinking.

If you do not like what is going on in your life, you have got to do something about it. Do not blame it on anybody.

If you are not happy with your work, you have got to change how you do your work.

Remember, if you do not change, nothing is going to change.

Are You The One Controlling Your Conversation?

by Bright Osadiaye, posted in Personal Development, Personal Growth

Who is controlling your conversation? If you are not controlling your conversation, someone else is doing it for you.

To learn about yourself, you must take charge of your conversation. If you are the one doing the talking, you are not hearing anything. You are not learning anything. You are not even learning about the other person.

‘The person who is talking is usually not the one controlling the conversation.’- Rob Jolles

If you want to learn more about yourself, you must control your converasation. To do that, you must listen. You learn a lot when you listen. You grow a lot when you listen. You live a lot when you listen. Instead of talking, why not pay attention to what is going on around you?