Tag: Success

No One Will Love You More Than You Love Yourself

by Bright Osadiaye, posted in Personal Development, Personal Growth

Self-care is your care. If you do not care for yourself, no one will care.

It is on you. No one is going to love you more than you do for yourself.

People are not selfish. They are busy taking care of their own wants and needs.

If you are serious about taking care of yourself, loving yourself, then stop driving yourself crazy.

Stop telling yourself negative things. Stop making your life miserable.

Stop wasting your time with people who don’t even know whether you are alive or not.

Start loving yourself. Start loving your work. Start spending more time with yourself.

Stop trying to be perfect. Start paying attention to what your heart wants you to do.

And if you can do these things for yourself, your life will improve. You will start to feel better about your life.

The question is, ‘Will you try?’

When You Do Not Need Courage

by Bright Osadiaye, posted in Personal Development, Personal Growth

Courage is everything. Courage is life. Without courage we are not going anywhere. Without courage, we are stuck.

But if life is not treating you really well, you need courage to keep going, to keep changing your life, to keep breathing.

If you can’t figure out what is going on in your life, you need courage to ask some tough questions. For example, ‘What is going on? Why am I here? Why am I not making progress?’

If you want to unstuck yourself, if you are not happy with your current position, you need courage to do it. You need courage to tell yourself ‘what you need to hear.’

Yes, it takes courage to do everything, to start anything. But when you are familiar with something, when you have already done something, now or in the past, you do NOT need a full load of courage to face it.

You do not need courage when things are going well with you, when you are happy,

when you are getting things done, when the going is easy, when people are treating you well,

when you are loving your life, when you are getting what you want, when you are not distracted,

when you are not in a bad relationship, when you are not stuck in a terrible job,

when you are not working for a toxic boss, when you are not depressed, when you are not going for a new job interview.

When things are fine, you do not need courage. You need focus and discipline, no matter what you are doing.

If not, you will lose focus. Do not let that happen. To win, you must stay in the game.