How To Increase Your Value In A Place Where People Don’t Value You

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You cannot control other people, but you can take care of yourself. People will always be people.

If you are in a place where people don’t treat other people as human beings, it is not about you. It is not about your work. It is not about who you are. It is about them. It is about the place, the culture.

Do not let that bother you. Do not even pay attention to it. When you are there, just focus on what is good about the place. Find something that makes you happy. And focus on that.

When you are disrespected, do not fight back. The best way to respond is to make yourself better, is to increase your worth. Instead of reacting to what is going on around you, use your energy to increase your worth.

Do things that will make you happy. Follow your path. Do not let what is going on in your current place stop you from reaching your future goals.

People will always be people. We are different. If you can make the situation better, give it a shot. If not, then do not waste your time on what is not going to add value to your life.

If you think that it is not going to get better, then you have got to look for a place where people will value you, where people will respect you, where you can add value to people and to yourself.

You have got to keep growing your life. If where you are is not suporting you, you have got to take charge of your life.

Do not wait for anyone to come and help you. The good news is: no one is coming to help you. You have got to help yourself. Because you can help yourself. Because your life is your life. If you are not in charge, someone else is.

Do not go there. Do not let that happen to you. Move your life forward. When you walk away from a terrible place, God is taking you to a new place, a place where you can bring out the best in yourself, a place where you can express your true self.

Do not stuck yourself in a place where people are just nasty, where people are living a fear-based life. If you stay, you are going to start acting like them. Do not go there, my friend. It is a bad situation to be in.

If you want to grow, you must keep going. Do not force people to stay in your life. Your life is better than forcing yourself to stay in a place where you are not valued.

If you do not treat yourself with love, no one is going to treat you with love. If you tolerate abuse, they will give you more. If you do not walk away from an abusive situation, you will never find your happiness.

And you will continue to look for your real self. Is that you?

Why Some Of Us Are Not Free

Talking is not freedom. Walking around is not freedom. Driving the best car is not freedom. Wearing the best clothes is not freedom.

Freedom comes from love. It comes from self-love. If you don’t love who you are, nothing else matters.

When you love who you are, your own freedom is possible. When you are in love with yourself, you can do all things. Because you just feel great about yourself.

You are free when you do not see obstacles as things that are trying to stop you from achieving your dreams.

When you are free, the world is free. When you are not free, the world is not free.’

You are free when you don’t focus on what is not working for you, when you are comfortable with yourself, when you are not afraid to stand for something.

You are free when you are NOT looking for anyone to give you permission to live your life.

You are free when you don’t bring other people down in order to win in life.

You are free when you think about other people, when you put other people first, when you ‘eat last.’

You are free when you are comfortable hanging around people who are different from you.

You are free when you are doing what you love, what makes you come alive. That is what you love. What we love is what makes us come alive. If you are not doing what you love, you are not alive. You are on your way. You are getting there.

You are free when you know that things, great things, take time to get done, that freedom makes things possible.

Think about it. Can you get real things done when you are not free? It is not possible. If you want to live a great life, you must set yourself free. When you are free, you are free to fly, to create, and to live.

The question is, ‘Are you living your life? Are you free to create? Are you free to enjoy your world? If not, what are you doing to make a difference in your life?

When you are free, the world is free. When you are not free, the world is not free.