Allowing Yourself To Appreciate What You Have

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Be grateful for what you have. Stop paying attention to what you don’t have. We don’t see what we have because we are searching for what is not there. Searching for what is not there is like chasing a butterfly. It will never be there. Focus on what you already have. Maintain it. Nurture it. Because if you don’t maintain and respect what you have, they will disappear.

“Be thankful for what you have; you’ll end up having more. If you concentrate on what you don’t have, you will never, ever have enough.”- Oprah Winfrey

Don’t waste your time on what is not there. What is not there is not there. Focus on what is there. Focus on your life. Focus on your career. Focus on your growth. Focus on your health. Focus on your relationships (with yourself and others). The more you focus on what is necessary, the more you will attract it into your life. In the words of Oprah Winfrey, “Be thankful for what you have; you’ll end up having more. If you concentrate on what you don’t have, you will never, ever have enough.” You want more things, right? Then be thankful for what you already have.

6 Anthony De Mello Quotes On How To Live Life

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Silence Matters

“When I speak, you must not listen to the words, my dear. Listen to the silence.”– Anthony De Mello

If you want to get results, you must organize your thoughts.

“Thought can organize the world so well that you are no longer able to see it.”- Anthony De Mello

A goal is just a goal without the right actions

You don’t make a goal out of relaxation and sensitivity.“- Anthony De Mello

Life is too short

‘It’s only when you are afraid of life that you fear death.“- Anthony De Mello

Your ‘ego’ is not your friend

To those who seek to protect their ego true peace brings only disturbance.”– Anthony De Mello

Unawareness

“The only tragedy there is in the world is unwakefulness and unawareness. From them comes fear, and from fear comes everything else…”– Anthony De Mello