Tag: Reality

How To Say Yes To Your Life

by Bright Osadiaye, posted in Personal Development

When you choose yourself, it means a yes to your life.

Saying yes to your life is about being comfortable in your own skin, no matter where you are.

When you say yes to your life, you are saying no to distractions, to anger, to resentment, to failure, to fear, to negative people, fake friends.

Saying yes to your life starts with you. When it comes to embracing your life, no matter what you have gone through in your life, it is your responsibility to reset your life, to reposition yourself for greatness.

Beause you own your life. If you are not for your life, no one is going to be for it. And if you are against yourself, no one can help you.

That is why you must say yes to your life like your life depends on it. Because your life really depends on it.

Saying yes to your life starts with being honest with yourself. In the words of Gezim Gashi, ‘Being honest with yourself about the gap between where you are right now and where you want to be will allow you map your action steps.’

When you say yes to your life, you are in a whole new place in your life. You are a different human being. It means you are willing to do whatever it takes to take your life to the next level.

When you say yes to your life, it means you know what you want, how to get it, and where to get it. It means you know what is going on in your world. You are not too far from your own reality.

Because, according to Gezim, ‘the more you know about your current reality, the more likely it is you’ll be able to map your way to your vision.’

That is what saying yes to your life is about. It doesn’t mean you are better than other people. It doesn’t mean you are smarter than other people. It does not mean you are after what other people are doing. And it doesn’t mean you are not going to face issues in the future. You will, but you will know what to do when they do arrive.

Saying yes to your life means you are willing to do whatever it takes to stand up for yourself, no matter what. It means you are comfortable with yourself. It means you don’t have any problem being with yourself. It means you are not going to sell yourself short, no matter what.

Saying yes to yourself means you are not going to settle for anything less than what the Lord has created you to achieve.

If you do not know how to say no to distractions, I want you to remember this: ‘Everything we do is a step towards our best self or away from it, toward some other possible of ourselves.’

So, what are you doing to move your life forward? What are you saying yes to? And what are you saying no to?

Source:

Gezim Gashi (2021). Unlocked: the power of You

If You Are Scared Of Your Own Reality, You Must Read These Quotes

by Bright Osadiaye, posted in Motivational Quotes, Personal Development

If you do not have the courage to face your own reality, the life you are creating, these quotes are for you.

According to Brianna Wiest,

‘Some people show you what’s possible if you keep going, and others show you what’s possible if you give up.’

‘Your ability to create resides in the millisecond that is right in front of you. The more time you spend fixated on what’s way behind or far ahead, the more you surrender your power.’

‘Even steps backward are part of the dance. Trust that something vital was learned and found within these experiences. Trust that something crucial came to be.’

‘You aren’t being asked to just get past this moment, to only endure. You’re being asked to transform through it. Life is giving you a chance to swell to a wholeness greater than you previously conceived, Say thank you.’

‘Don’t shrink your life to meet your comfort zone; expand your vision to meet your standard.’

‘You don’t have to change your entire life overnight. Just do one thing a little better than you did yesterday. Then do it again.’

‘Focus on how your life feels rather than how you imagine it looks. That’s where your true journey begins.’

‘You are meant for what you want at the deepest level of yourself.’

‘Determine how you’d actually like to spend your today. Every other answer will be found in that same knowing space.’

‘The stronger you get, the stronger you are. The more you learn, the better you become. The more you build, the more you have. The more you become, the more your life expands. Every step sets you a little more free.’

Being scared of your own reality is not the answer. The answer is facing it.

As always, you are more, not less!

Further Reading:

Brianna Wiest (2025). The Life That’s Awaiting