Your Friends Can Make Or Break You

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Photo by Elly Fairytale

We need friends. But we need good friends. Your friends can make or break you. So when you are choosing your friends, choose wisely. And if you cannot find a good friend, then be a good friend to someone.

“If you can’t find a good friend, be one.”

Be a good friend to yourself, then to others. Because you cannot give what you don’t have. If you are not a good friend to yourself, to your soul, how can you give it to others? Impossible.

When it comes to choosing your friends, you are in control. Because you are your own master. You can decide who you want to hang out with. You can change your life by changing the people you hang out with. Yes, you cannot change people. But you can change the people you hang out with. It is within your reach. It is within your power. If you do not do it, who will?

It is better to hang out with positive, happy people. Because positive people are infectious. You can do a lot of positive things when you are around positive people. They always carry love in their hearts. They carry happiness wherever they go. And if you want to reach higher in life, you need to be around positive people. You need to do everything within your power to get rid of negative people in your life. You go up with positive people. You go down with negative people.

If you hang out with negative people, you can never enjoy your best life. You can never do your best work. You can never live your best life. Why is that? Because they are energy suckers.

If you want to do your best work, if you want to live your best life, if you want to make yourself happier, you can never do it by hanging out with negative people. You must change yourself. You must let them (negative people) go, so that positive people can come into your life.

This Is Why People With Integrity Are Happier Than Those Without Integrity

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Photo by Lina Kivaka

Abiding happiness will come to you when, ceasing to selfish cling, you are willing to give up.”- James Allen

Happiness comes from integrity. People with integrity are happy people. They control what they do; they control what they say; and they treat people with respect and dignity.

They work hard to maintain their integrity. They know that without integrity, they have nothing. If you lose your integrity, you have lost everything.

Happy people understand that “happiness is the key to success.” If you are not happy with yourself, it will be almost impossible to enjoy and love what you do.

In order to be happy, find meaning in what you do. Always focus on what is good, not what is bad in your life. When you focus on what is good, when you focus on what is positive, you will attract good and positive things into your life.