Tag: Possibilities

Why You Should Take Charge Of Your Life

by Bright Osadiaye, posted in Personal Development, Personal Growth
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Your life is your life to live. Your life is your life to celebrate. Your life is your responsibility.

If you are not in charge of your life, you will never achieve your full potential. You will never stop chasing your dreams.

If someone else is doing the driving, then you are not going to get to where you really want to be.

If you are not in charge of your life, then who is doing the thinking for you? Who is making your decisions concerning your life? Who is doing the work for you?

Look, if you want to experience a different life, you have got to take your life back. You can’t afford to be a bystander in your own life.

To win, you must play in the game of life. You must get your hands dirty. You must not be afraid to confront yourself.

You must be your own supporter. Do not wait for everything to be perfect before you fly. Do not focus on what is missing, what you do not have, what you can’t do. Don’t live in your past. Because living in the past is not being in charge. You are in charge of your life when you live in the present.

You are in charge of your life when you have the courage to walk away from what is not working for you. You are in charge of your life when you have the power to face difficult challenges, when you have the courage to face your fears.

You are in charge of your life when you focus on possibilities, not limitations. You are in charge of your life when you have the faith to believe in yourself when others don’t.

And you are in charge of your life when you have the courage to say, ‘I do not know everything.’ Above all, you are in charge of your life when you are comfortable with yourself, no matter what.

The question is, ‘Are you in charge of your life?

The Meaning Of Being Lonely

by Bright Osadiaye, posted in Personal Development, Personal Growth

Loneliness is not you. You are not lonely. You are reconnecting with your yourself. You are becoming a better you.

You are reflecting on things that you could have done differently. You are redefining yourself.

You are not willing to go back to where you were yesterday. You are moving foward. You are cleaning up your dirty mind. You are simplifying your life.

You are healing your life. You are healing your wound. You are forgiving people who have done things to you.

Just because you are not with people, just because you are alone, it has nothing to do with how you are feeling right now. BUT

it has everything to do with what you want for YOU. It has everything to do with where you want to go. It has everything to do with your inner self, your best self. It has everything to do with your relationships with others.

When you are alone, you are not lonely. You are spending quality time with yourself. Being alone is not being lonely. It is being alive. It is being comfortable with yourself.

Be comfortable with yourself, no matter what is going on in your life. Because if you are not okay with yourself, you will find it hard to be okay with other people.