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How To Take Charge Of Your Life

by Bright Osadiaye, posted in Health & Well-Being, Personal Development, Personal Growth
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“To be in charge of your life is to be 100% in control of your life.” That is what REAL life is all about.

You can’t succeed if someone else is in charge of your life. You can’t succeed if you are not in charge of your OWN life. It is not easy to be in charge, but if you can stand the heat, it will be better for you and the people around you.

To take charge of your life, here some strategies for you, according to Dr Wayne W. Dyer.

Choose your personal fulfillment. Dr Wayne W. Dyer said, “The essence of greatness is the ability to choose personal fulfillment in circumstances where others choose madness.”

Focus on what matters. If you want to take charge of your life, don’t pay attention to irrelevant things. Focus on things that will get you closer to your dreams. Dr Wayne W. Dyer said, “Taking charge of yourself involves putting to rest some very prevalent myths.”

Control your thoughts. Take care of your thoughts. If you want to feel good about yourself, think positive thoughts. Because your thoughts control your actions. So if you can control your thoughts, you can control how you react to things happening around you. Control your circumstances. Don’t allow circumstances to take charge of your life. Dr Wayne W. Dyer said, “If you control your thoughts, and your feelings from your thoughts, then you are capable of controlling your own feelings.”

Taking charge of your life starts with awareness. Dr Wayne W. Dyer said, “Taking charge of yourself begins with awareness.” You can take charge of your life if you know who you are, where you going, who is going with you, what you want, and how to get there. If you don’t know these things, you can’t take charge of your life.

Choose happiness. Happiness is a choice, and it is yours to make. You can be happy if you want to be happy. You can do that by thinking happy thoughts. Don’t think about negative things. If you catch yourself doing it, change it.

“Taking charge of yourself involves more than simply trying on new thoughts for size. It requires a determination to be happy and to challenge and destroy each and every thought that creates a self- immobilizing unhappiness in you.”– Dr Wayne W. Dyer

“It is better to take charge of your life than to take care of your life.”

Are you ready to take charge of your life?

How To Build Your Self-Worth

by Bright Osadiaye, posted in Health & Well-Being, Personal Development, Personal Growth, Spirituality
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Baltasar Gracian said, “Respect yourself if you would have others respect you.”

Respect everything about yourself and people will respect you. Your self-worth is your worth. It is how you treat yourself.

To build your self-worth, do not let people put you down, no matter who they are. Don’t let that happen to you. If you do, you are telling yourself, ‘you are not good enough.’

To build your self-worth, you have to feel good about yourself. It is important. Because if you don’t feel good about yourself, you can’t really do well in life.

Another way you can build your self-worth is to stop putting yourself down. Don’t put yourself down, and do not allow people to put you down. Do not compare yourself to others. They have their lives. You have yours. So live your own life.

Tell yourself, “I’m good enough.” If you don’t celebrate yourself, no one will celebrate you. Do it always.

No matter what you are doing, try to be your best, do your best, and earn the best. Don’t strive to be perfect. Just do your best.

Hang out with people who celebrate you, not those who will put you down. Associate yourself with friends who want you to succeed in life. Don’t be around negative people- people who will question your worth. They will drag down your self-worth.

You can also raise your self-worth by following your passion. Do what you are passionate about. Don’t start anything that you cannot finish. It feels good to start something and complete it. It boosts your self-worth.

Finally, you can build your self-worth by learning how to forgive yourself. No one is perfect. If you do anything wrong, don’t beat yourself up. Forgive yourself. Love yourself. Celebrate yourself and the people around you. Focus on positive things, and positive things will come to you.

Don’t put yourself down. You are unique. Celebrate yourself. Love yourself. Forgive yourself. Move on.