Tag: positive mindset

How To Unlock Your Inner Focus

by Bright Osadiaye, posted in Personal Development, Personal Growth

When you focus on what you want, you are more likely to meet it. You can’t become successful if you don’t focus on what you want.

If your thoughts don’t match what you are chasing, nothing in your life will change.

When you focus on something, you start thinking differently. You start seeing what others are not seeing. You start taking more risks. You start doing things differently. You don’t waste your time on what is not helping you.

When you focus on what you want, you begin to live your life the way you want to live it. You don’t have to wait for anyone to tell you how to live your life.

When you focus on what is real to you, you do not care so much about what others are thinking about you.

Because you are not wasting your time. You are building your life. You are creating a better you, a better future.

What happens when you can’t focus? If you can’t focus on what you are doing, you have to change what is going on inside your mind.

Because if you are not at peace with yourself, if your inner life is not at peace with your dreams, nothing in your life is going change.

Remember, when you focus on what is real to you, you are on your way to your greatness.

How To Free Yourself From Whatever It Is That Is Holding You Back

by Bright Osadiaye, posted in Personal Development, Personal Growth
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Whatever it is that is holding you back, you can set yourself free. It starts with what you want in your life.

If what you want is bigger than what is holding you back, you can defeat it. You can overcome it. And you can move your life forward.

To set yourself free, you must decide.

‘I know I’m not the only one who, to this day, still sometimes wishes they could just toss a decision over to mom. She’d know what to do.’– Lia Garvin

Make your own decision. Do not delegate your decision-making power to anyone, not even your mom. If you do that, you have given your power away.

To set yourself free, remember that you are not your mistakes.

‘When you realize a mistake wasn’t that big of a deal … then it wasn’t that big of a deal.’– Lia Garvin

Mistakes are not the end of the world. And they are not the end of your life. You are have a life that is bigger than a mistake.

When you make a mistake, own it. Do not beat yourself up for making a mistake. If you do, you will never learn something new.

We learn when we make mistakes, not when we are perfect. Remember, if you are not making mistakes, you are not trying hard enough.

If you want to set yourself free, you must stop thinking about your past failures.

‘The only person thinking about if other people are thinking about you is you.’– Lia Garvin

The only way to see where you are going is to focus on where you are going. The only way to reach where you are going is to stay in your own lane. The only way to succeed in life is to mind your own business.

And the only way to set yourself free is to stop thinking about your past failures.

To set yourself free, you must tell yourself what to do.

‘Our inner critic hates when we set goals, it’s literally like, ‘Who is this bitch to tell me what to do.?”– Lia Garvin

Whether your inner critics like your goals or not, if you want to be successful, you must set your goals. Why? Because you need a target. Your target is your destination. If you want to be successful, you must aim at something bigger than you.