Why You Should Never Joke With The Love You Have For Yourself

Self-love is what you need. You don’t need love from anywhere. If you do not love yourself, if you do not take care of your life, of your work, of those who are for you, then don’t expect to get it from anywhere.

People are not selfish. They are just doing their own things. They are taking care of their own things, their own lives.

So if you want other people to even see you as a human being, you must first do it for yourself. You must respect who you are, no matter what. You must stop beating yourself up for nothing.

You must learn to be there for yourself when no one cares, when people are not nice to you.

Do not worry about what is not worth your time. Create space for yourself. Make time to love, to play with yourself. Stop doing too much. Productivity is not about doing too much. It is about loving what you do. It is about spending your time wisely.

It is about doing more with less. It is about spending time with quality people. It is about doing quality work with quality people.

If you are really serious about taking care of your life, then you must be comfortable with yourself.

The question is, ‘How comfortable are you with yourself?’

Where You Are Right Now Matters

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‘… before you determine where you want to go in the world, there is one critical navigational element. You must first establish exactly where you are.’- Jim Stovall

He is right. It does not matter what you want to do in your life. If you don’t have a strong foundation, it is not going to work.

To take care of your future, you must not forget where you are. Remember, whatever it is that you are doing right now, you are preparing yourself for your future.

If you are playing right now, you are playing with your future. If you are studying, you are studying to make your future a better one. If you are hanging out with the right people, you making your future connections.

Small or big, do not play with what you are doing right now. They can make or break you.

Before you do anything, ask yourself, ‘Is this thing going to be helpful in the future?’ If what you are doing right now is not going to help you achieve your desired future, then stop doing it.

Because if you continue to do it, your life will never change. But if you stop doing it, things will start to change in your life. And your life will never be the same again.